How long can a man safely go without an orgasm?

Yep. I did get empathy when I talked to a urologist. It sure seems important to guys to orgasm. But no. It’s ok. I don’t need them. And since my wife is happy, and I can be kept healthy orgasm-free, I only got encouragement and even praise.

The consultation to directly face someone to talk about all this was a big event for me.

 

Yeah. Be careful what we men wish for. I got into this thinking I would like to use chastity and a cage to stop me masturbating so much; now my wife has taken me at my word and keeps me pretty much locked up constantly. I know I have encouraged her to do so to see how my behaviour changes over time, but I fear we may reach a point where she likes me caged and doesn’t miss the messiness of having our penis coming inside her.

 

For the rest of his life ...

 

Frightening! A brave new world for me if that happens. What I don’t want to have happen is for my wife to seek other, ‘real’ men, who don’t have an interest in chastity. That worries me.

 

Apparently. I believe we may need to have our prostrates ‘milked’ to maintain health, but going without any more orgasms is apparently possible. Not sure I like the thought!!

 

A male doesn't need to orgasm at all. Simple truth that I accept though many men, for their own purposes, choose to ignore or dispute. Functionality is related to use. The body will simply adjust to a zero orgasm life

 

Absolutely agree. It's ignoring the truth and scare mongering for gain.

 

I was assured in person by one urologist and then in writing by a second that I don’t need to worry about not having orgasms. Orgasms are not important. You can live a healthy life without them.

There’s no minimum frequency for ejaculation either. My body will expel semen from my prostate. I don’t need to interfere.

I was told “everyone is different” and don’t worry, with normal advice to get prostate exams at 45 with family history and 50 if not.

 

Thanks. Good to know from a doctor. Reassuring that if I do end up without orgasms for prolonged periods I won’f come to harm.

 

Sounds absolutely correct!

 

Well my wife asked me, a daily masturbator, when we started chastity if I medically needed to ejaculate. I told her nope.

She hasn't thought about unlocking me for coming ever since, except when she wants to tank up.
Turns out she wants to fill up about 6-8 times a year.

 

It's common knowledge that nearly all men eventually get prostate cancer. Most never know it. It's a disease you usually die WITH and not OF.

(I have an oncologist buddy who concurs.)

So the doctor is not a quack. Likely very experienced.

 

What those numbers do not include are the undiagnosed cases.

 

In the last eight years I have ejaculated less than 20 times. My doctor gives me a yearly prostate exam, and says that mine is fine.

 

Awesome record. And awesome record keeping!

 

Longest streak just ended a couple days ago at 200 days. She said that everything seemed fine, so we'll see what happens if she doubled that.

 

Orgasms are unnecessary and can be used as a luxury treat by your KH.

Multiple studies have shown that men who masterbate or have sex frequently, like 20+ times a month, have a significantly lower chance of developing prostate cancer. But all that maters is keeping the "juices" flowing. Which can be accomplished in several ways without physical stimulation orgasm. Prostate massage can express fluid quite efficiently with no orgasmic pleasure. Lucky men can learn to orgasm from anal stimulation, be it prostate massage or anal sex. anal orgasm reportedly feels amazing and has no refractory period. Im not ready to learn that much about it on a personal level yet so all i have to go in is what others say. it does sound interesting though.

So, Sadly, your partner can keep your little guy locked up as long as she likes. or forever, with the obvious exceptions made for cleaning, of course.

good luck! hope you got a comfy cage!

 

I am “blessed”. My body will release the contents of my prostate without physical stimulation ever 2-3 weeks. The longest I’ve gone without was a 2020 record of 1 month, and a 2021 record of 1m 14d.

I just returned to daily chastity after a months long break from control and denial from last August. I had a false start in October-November and January. But I’m committed to staying caged and being kept denied now.

I say that to mention that it took me only about a week of caged denial until I poured out in a slow twitch and climax free release. And a week later I’m drooling precum like mad.

I was juggling a thick rope of clear slick precum between my hands this morning in the bathroom.

I was assured by two urology surgeons - one woman and one man - that male orgasms are not necessary. I just needed a yearly prostate exam when I get to that age. I received zero warning or concern. None. I actually felt encouraged and supported. No shame.

It shook me to hear it… my wife laughed about it, and teases me about getting a doctors note…

But my mind quivers when I think about permanent orgasm denial, and my body seems to accept its conclusion… I’ll tingle in my cage, and suddenly my prostate empties out. Slow and gentle but copious amounts…. As if it’s given up trying to tell my higher brain that I *need* to be given a climax.

Deep down I know I never need to be unlocked for a release. And my wife supports and praised me when I do spontaneously.

You won’t break or burst. Your mind might, but your body won’t.

 

LOL. You’re really on the wrong website, I think.

Many guys regain their natural libido by abstaining from masturbation to porn. You get lots of great hormones from orgasm denial and arousal without climax. You can be turned on pretty much all the time, and many people like it.

Climaxes are not an emotional necessity, or a hormonal necessity. Physical intimacy and emotional connection is probably on the hierarchy of needs. Though people do live without that. And that’s sad. Being able to be turned on by another human enhances intimacy.

One can be happy and fulfilled living in an ever-present “simmering” of arousal.

I masturbated daily. Twice daily. Once upon a time. I understand where you are coming from. But there is another way.

 

Ive been on orgasm denial for several years.. i view orgasm as some heightened feeling tat would com n go.. d same feeling i derived when i performed oraly to my wife to her satisfaction.. such feeling when she huged me tightly with fingernails presed into my shoulders once climax.. her orgasm is so much more pleasurable than mine years back when i had my last.. so.. yes.. i compensated mine by sharing hers.. as for bodily fluids.. yes.. i agree with frends above d body has som built in mechanism to deal with..i take dht blocker for prostate health.. i had had enuf of orgasm or ejaculation.. i can say im done with it.. i masturbated daily.. anywhere.. school, colege, workplace.. car.. since 11yo.. With denial.. d hormones r building up..im as male as u can c.. ok except tat d dick has not fuly erected for years.. i could chanel easily into house chores.. at d gym.. ect.. in fact i cherish my new found energy n enthusiam..