How did you ejaculate during the period of chastity management?

For me.. a ruined orgasm does not give me any satisfaction... so, i am still very attentive twords my wife/KH.

 

How do you go about getting a ruined orgasm? Do you take care of that yourself, or does your KH make it happen? What method do you use?
I want so badly to give my KH wife the vaginal orgasm that she craves, but I don't want the decrease in arousal for myself.

 

Same as cageddhubby said above, what happens with me is after a 2-4 weeks, I will "bust", but not in an orgasmic way. I either have a good dream, or I have spontaneous ejaculation, usual at night when I'm touching my wife. It just ends up coming out as the body has to get it out somehow. For her, she loves that it works this way now as no need to worry about the key.
As for the orgasm for her, invest in some good toys and learn to get her off without her penis.

 

My wife/KH uses a vibe on me and massages my balls. This usually gives me enough stimulant. When I get close she stops. Then I more or less dribble out. I don't feel much at all honestly. I get some pressure release but that is about it. So, I am nowhere near satisfied. But my cage is dripping with cum. So, I am still amazingly horny and give her the attention she deserves.

 

We just started doing that as well. She'll get to have her vibrator time, and when she's done, I get to use a vibrator as well. Nothing like having the wife watch me play like a woman lol

 

For a few months, I've had a problem with spontaneous orgasms in the 2 to 3 week period... I got very close a few times this month, but managed to shake it off and hold my load. But I'm starting to feel like I'm paying a price for not allowing my body to drain my balls. I hope I'm not making a mistake... My balls really ache and I'm so fucking horny that little things can trigger me right now.

 

Your body will release your balls one way or another. If you feel pain, that's a bad sign, but if it's just "achey balls" your body will find a way to get it drained.

 

You don't.

 

Learn to meditate and everything will change.

 

Interesting that you said about a good dream. I had my first "wet Dream" the other night. First time that has happened to me since I was a teenager. It was interesting to cum in my sleep. But like you said about "bust". I guess my body just needed to get the cum out of me. At that time my balls were rather sore and full. I guess it was inevitable.

 

I'm not feeling any pain... Just overly full, like I have a pair of water balloons between my thighs.

That's exactly how I feel. Full & achey. I'm doing my best to last one more week, but I feel like I could blow my load at any moment.

 

I know the feeling my friend. What happened to me may happen to you as well. I had no control over it. I just woke up covered. Was not very satisfying. But I felt better. Last night my wife gave me a ruined orgasm. Again, not satisfying but take the pressure off.

 

Not allowed to ejaculate that is only for men I am only allowed to dribble out when I am serving owners needs

 

Nothing wrong with that. My wife loves it when I just "dribble out". Not sure why... but she loves that.

 

System we use, I only get caged ruins. She has only tried to administer one but just her presents caused it to do more then oozing or dribbling out. She will let me use a Magic Wand(the ONLY way I have found to cum while caged) and I pull it away just at the right time. I wont get that charge or rush of the orgasm, just the build up and then........nothing. She loves how frustrated it leaves me. One time I actually kicked and flung my arms like a toddler throwing a tantrum. I'll fall asleep almost angry. What it does for me is deals with that achy feeling in my balls. I can just about swear that my balls are larger and more swollen before hand. What's odd about that, I have had a vasectomy 16 years ago so I am not sure how that works.

 

that is awesome! I know it is frustrating but it is still awesome. I love the whole sensation of it. I cannot explain why I like being in that state but I do.

 

spot on!