I remember seeing a leather version in a shop in Soho in the early/mid 90s. We got it for Xmas to play with. And an arab strap. The leather one was a few rings held together by leather and laces. It only lasted about 2 or 3 days and the leather straps snapped. I do remember seeing Cruella mags in the same shop and my eyes popped out of my head. And the stories/pics like nothing I'd seen before.
In the mid / late '90s on some sex toy websites I found the CB2000. I was intrigued from the moment I saw it. I didn't like the plastic very much, and the price seem astounding to me at the time. When I realized this fall that I could try a metal one for USD $25.00 from Amazon, I took the plunge and finally bought one.
I learned about chastity through erotic hypnosis. I was into it pretty heavy for a while but was never able to trance. Most hypnotists have a chastity file albeit more of a mental chastity but some did recommend the users to go out and purchase one. I looked into it and realized what a turn on it would be to not have control over that part of my body. Purchased a cb6000 knock off and started self locking. That was fun for a while but realized it would be much more fun if I couldnt get to the keys. Asked my wife if she wanted to participate this past july.
I was a senior in high school, 1999. An article in Maxim magazine of all things! The article read "If your girlfriend want to use one of these on you, run!" It was the cb-2000 at the time. I remember seeing it and knowing I had to have one!
Studying the several aspects of BDSM I also learned about chastity. I had doubts initially but during the last vacation with my dear Lady I thought about submitting to her even deeper. This made me order a CB-6000s look alike and try it out. I was glad that my dear Lady also liked the device and the idea to take sexual control over me. It obviously pleases her closing the padlock and checking out that everything is properly closed every now and then. I really enjoy the felling to be locked up by her and like when she says "I think i will not unlock you tonight".
Over 20 years ago, I was in Philadelphia on business, and went to a adult book store. I saw a couple of toys that caught my eye. One was a leather and steel cage with a padlock. Something told me I had to have it, so I purchased it. It never was good for more than a few days, but it started me down this path. I had no idea that they were chastity devices, but the thought of having my penis locked intrigued me. The rest as they say is history.
I remember seeing Tollyboy full belt ads in Skin Two or some other fetsh magazines back in the 1980s, and at some points ads for teh CB ranges started popping up.
My domme had a CB6000 and asked me how I felt about "trying it to see if I liked it" . Within two months I was locked in a custom fit jailbird and I've been in it 24/7 for the past 18 months. Mistress keeps the key & unlocks me once a month to shave & to bottom for her.
From online story's I would read my Wife in bed. Then we looked into it further and we both agreed to try it for as long as my wife enjoyed it. I consider my self her playground but she rarely takes advantage of all the rides.
I read about one in a story in a porn mag about 1990. I thought, wow that's hot. I'd never wear one, and they don't really exist. Then I saw a homemade chastity in a pic from the abpeb newsgroup about 98 and realised that I had to have one. Found the Miller website and ordered a CB2000 in 2001 with my then girlfriend - now my wife and we took it from there! It took forever to arrive from the states - about 2 months. Changed days now
Except for a few small details, our story (so far), told as "Sam's Frannie" in The Library, is essentially how it happened...
I had it dumped in my lap about 8 years ago now. He thought I was going to be impressed. I wasn't. I didn't see why he couldnt find me attractive anymore unless he was wearing a stupid thing on his cock. Was I really that unattractive? I indulged him in his fantasy nonetheless being generous in nature. Then Iwhen I did realise the potential I struggled with the guilt of keeping him locked like that for a while. It wa all a bit troublesome to begin with. You have to realise the potential and that it really is what he wants even if you're fairly strict with it. If you can rise above those bits then you're home and dry.
I tried one of those contraptions that looked like a champaign cork cage with leather straps with a GF, but we were both too young/stupid to make it work. Flash forward to a year ago whilst searching femdom on the net.... Bang! I discovered that s$&# got real in the time between....and those images turned me on to the "N-th" degree. And now, the journey has begun.
With my recent change in mental state I am mad about everything chastity and sissy again. I am desperate for any sexual encounter with her, especially one that ends with her O. I try to obey and not be a moaning bitch. It's like our normal relationship anyway but she has the right to have fun even if it hurts and be obeyed. And I am down with that. I was mad into the lifestyle for years until I got sick. We're on the road back. We left signposts from the last time To answer the question, I don't remember, what was my relationship without chastity and submission? I remember trying to set up sessions where I could torture Mistress. It never seemed to come off, we played with bondage. I wanted to assert myself but it never came off. And no surprise there - I'd been fantasizing about crossdressing and submitting way before I could cum. I used to dress in my mother's lingerie when I was 8. So I have form. Maybe a more fair way of looking at it is that lazy me can be forced to do service and housework in return for dressing, chastity and dominance. And I think that works for some people.