How common is caging a dominant man?

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    What type of martial arts? I have not been locked during martial arts but I do a grappling style.
     
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    some pretty high intensity fencing. It might be more annoying for grappling!
     
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    Hey Jane,

    so normally I am without any question the dominant part in our relationship and we both like that.

    However, I would like to be closed in the chastity belt to not be able to play with me when my partner is not there. she is a teacher and therefore away for a long time, I work largely in the home office and have a lot of uncontrolled time that I also often abuse.

    unfortunately she doesn't understand and can't manage to separate the issues of dom and abstinence. can you give some help here or some tips on how i can support and build her up?

    thank you

    Michael

    @keephimcaged
     
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    This is something that has happened to us as well. A little bit different though, since that time we switched roles.

    The reason is simular, my needs often quickly come back while hers are not that quick.

    Everybody has their own way of working things out and if this happens to be something that works for the both of you, why not?

    Good luck
     
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    Thank you for posing the question, this is a really good discussion.
    I think we will find that their are far more dominant males walking around with their tackle all caged up in a nice package.
    I also think we will find that the greater percentage will be of an older demographic, where they have accepted what they enjoy and like as well as I am going to do exactly what I want to do and sod what everyone else thinks.
    Yes I am a caged Master and have been for a long time, However I am not caged for chastity in any way, it is something we both love and enjoy the look , feel, thought of.
     
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    It has its own unique qualities some dominate guys outside of the bedroom love to be dominated in the bedroom it’s like being too completely different people life on the edge like being a double agent.
     
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    Im dominant in most parts of our relationship. But my wife is dominant in the bedroom. There is a bit of bleedover, for example if I'm short with her or forgot to do a request I will get punishment later when I'm bound and helpless.
     
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    My husband is completely the head of our family. But excepts my help in keeping himself chaste.
     
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    Im look like dominant man.. as male as you can see.. i lift weights in gym, i dont crossdress, i ride a harley, i talk with a strong voice, i splurt expletives at construction sites..
    once i return home in the presence of my wife…
    Im not allowed clothes, my penis cant erect, sex is licking her up, im to do house chores, cook, wash and clean.. yes, im being caged at the dick.
     
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    How long time you are using your cage?

     
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    My wife and I have been married for 30 years. Since I have told her about my fantasy, we have not had one argument in two years. She has learned how to use chastity to her advantage. This is what you work for.
     
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    For the past two months for this model until i developed some irritation
     
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    I am a caged Dom.

    Both in my 'vanilla' life and in my kink life I am the dominant one in almost all of my relationships. I am also caged and have been, 24/7, for about two years. My current KH, for the past two years, has been my primary submissive.

    I am aware of a small number of other caged Doms, although not as many as I would have expected. (Perhaps the fact that so few people seem to be able to wrap their heads around the paradox is one of the reasons that so few of us go public.)

    I've been 'into' chastity for as long as I have been sexual, although modern cages are a relatively recent, about three years ago, addition.

    The number of reasons that any man or couple pursues the chastity lifestyle is as numerous as the number of men and couples who are involved. I'm not sure there is any value in trying to overgeneralize.

    In our case, we enjoy the 'mind fuck' of my key on her collar.
     
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    I also am caged every day and a Dominate Master with a full time f/male slave.
    I wear a cage during the day and a cock ring at night.
    We are not into chastity in any shape or form, just we really like and enjoy the look and feel of wearing cages / cock rings.
    To the both of us it is the same as putting on your watch every morning.
    However any sissy sub of mine will and is permanently caged and locked, even when being milked
    Master P
     
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    This is the basis of my relationship with my submissive keyholder. We agree that it is really hot. For both of us.
     
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    Well, give the sub the order to keep the key out of reach and to hand it over at the earliest after 2 weeks for 4 hours to have sex together.

    the dom can then let off steam. but also has the task of getting the sub in the mood for this time or arousing her. should be feasible.

    and then continue to be closed dom and closed again.

    the sub is not allowed to hand over the key during this time, as this would result in severe punishment. well, maybe she loves it.

    a nice game would be a nice experience, or am I wrong?
     
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    For my wife an I chastity is used to enforce a switch. I'm naturally dominant and sexually I'm aggressive to force me to be "submissive" mentally that cage works wonders. The change and the novelty is really what does it for both of us. She l
     
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