How can I get my wife to like to feminize me?

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    Hello,
    since 1 year my wife and I live occasionally the frame that she is my queen and I am her slave.
    Especially when we have sex I am dresses in a bra, dress and stockings and serve her however she wants.
    I am also ordering female clothes, shave my legs and wear everyday a string and she is ok with that.

    However, I would like to take the next step and would love if she takes the initiative and dresses me or wants me to dress as a woman. I would like to be dresses in a dress, heels, wig and painted nails.

    How do I make it appealing to my wife that she dresses me as a woman or orders me to dress as a woman?

    I would love to hear your experiences from feminized husband's.
     
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    Tell her if she does it then she can find a lover and run off with him and never look back.
     
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    I feel like she’s already entertaining you desires quite a bit. If she’d like to take it further, she will. Just enjoy where you are at and allow her to be in control!
     
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    Ask her if she wants to do this. If she does, then great. If she doesn't, then stop.
     
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    I feel that if she enjoyed it as much as you do she would have already taken more active role in this. I think she loves you and is playing along since she knows that will make you happiest.

    So I would suggest open and honest communication especially about your desires in this and what your end goal would ultimately be as in of you want to transition to actually become a woman by means of surgery and hormonal support.

    So once that conversation is had you will know where she stands. And it is tough since that's a big scary topic to have a conversation about. Especially since the ramifications can mean the end of your relationship. But if you do these things behind her back it may end the relationship anyways.

    So like I said if she was really into it she would have taken a more active role in making you more feminine.

    And if I'm be super honest if she doesn't prefer this and is ultimately a deal breaker for her, and you, then maybe it's best you don't waist anymore of each others time and move on.
     
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    OP said he would love to hear experience’s from feminised husbands, maybe follow your own rules and not answer questions not directed at you?

    And also why be so derogatory to the OP with your initial reply?
     
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    how about asking Her, for Her advice on the clothes you've selected, give Her some options to work with so you can do it together
     
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    Just stop wearing the clothes and so on. Act like usual, but be gentle and serve her as before.
    Change your sissy role with a gentle slavehusband role.

    If she really enjoys you in female clothes she will dress you. If not then not.

    My wife makes me wear a skirt and stockings if she wants me to be her bitchfemboy. It is my signal then, that I need some rectal preparation.
    Nit too often, since she wants me to do strip tease then - which I hate and am not too professional with.

    But usually she wants me as her hubbybitch. Not her femboy. Let it be her decision.
     
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    Does she really make you wear it?

    You are a man, surely, when she is forcing you into an outfit you can struggle against her strong arms and kick and scream against it?

    How exactly does she make you wear it?
     
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    There are twelve words that clarify this.

    Never underestimate the force and powers of a polnish super hero woman.

    Never.
    Ever.

    Ok. Fourteen!
     
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