Hi all, Just a quick note to introduce myself. I'll try to keep it brief, because I'm not a very interesting man. I'm 35, soon to be 36, from the United Kingdom. I have locked myself up for the first time today. It's a kink I've been interested in for a while, and I've come across this place on several occasions before. Moreover, though, I'm hoping it'll be the start to some self-improvement. I won't bore you all with the details, but things have been tough over the last few years which has led me to putting on weight, not being as productive as I should, and generally just being a mopey arse. I've always had a high sex drive, and I think I've tended to use the instant gratification of masturbation as a tool to distract from dealing with things. I recently had a good chat with someone who is in a FL-chaste relationship, and he told me that he's a better person for it. He gets more done, he's more attentive, and he's even found ways to use chastity as a means of getting in shape - apparently using an exercise bike with a buttplug inside when you haven't climaxed in ages is quite fun. I shall have to give that a try in the future. Talking to him was pretty much the last push I needed. I've got my cage on. It's a cheapish silicone thing to start with. I wanted to test the waters. It's comfortable enough, though I think it'd be too easily escapable - so I've ordered a few items off Amazon to fix a couple of issues with it. I'm going to replace the two plastic pins either side of the locking pin with some metal screws and bolts to prevent it sliding off. To start with, for the next week or so, I will probably wear it during the day, and ease into wearing it overnight. I'm going to start popping the key in a bottle of water and freezing it in the morning, taking it out a little before bedtime so it won't be accessible until I'm either already asleep, or thinking of nothing but sleep. That way, I hope to eventually become comfortable enough wearing it overnight too. At the moment, the device seems to fit nicely. It isn't too noticeable. I can tell it's there, but it's not uncomfortable so that's a good start. In the long-term, maybe I'll look for a keyholder. Or maybe I'll get lucky and meet somebody who is into this thing, but first thing is first - I want to be a better person, and stopping that thing between my legs being the crutch I rely on to feel good for a few minutes is a step towards accomplishing this. And on non-chastity related matters, I'm a bit of a fantasy and sci-fi nerd. Enjoy video games, movies (all sorts... musicals is probably the one genre I'm not keen on) and yeah, that's about it. Told you, not very interesting, sadly.
Thank you Yeah, I was considering that. I mentioned in another post that maybe doing it by 2nd-class with a signature required could be quite fun - particularly around Xmas time when the whole postal service gets a bit chaotic.
Thanks for the welcome! Yeah, to begin with I'm going to freeze the key in a 500ml bottle. Eventually, I'm thinking of going for something with a more random element to it. A time-lock safe is one idea I'm contemplating. I could use a RNG to set times between attempts and put multiple keys in it, with only one being the correct one.