Hello, you can call me Oliver and I live in Belgium (the Flemish part). I do like to identify myself as a slave and chastity is becoming more and more and integral part of that experience. Recently I upgraded to a Behind Barz belt (did hit my funds heavily, I must say) and am trying to get used to it. In my student days I started with "the Curve". Now the Holy Trainer still suits me fine, but I cannot wear it at night. Being a strong 'grower' it wakes me up every time. Any tips? I do hope to find some friends here to exchange experiences. I am gay and married to my boyfriend, who is also my keyholder. But the weird thing is that I can really get excited thinking of femdom scenes. Life has its weird turns, not?