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    It's very exciting to find such a classy community for the chastity lifestyles. I'm a husband to a gorgeous wife who has agreed to experiment with chastity in our marriage. We started out as an open marriage in which we were both allowed to play with others as long as we were open about it. But now (from my suggestion) only she can play with others as long as we're both okay with it, while i remain 100% faithful to her. It was easy to convince her, haha. We met a guy who has been a friend of ours' for several years who is now her regular lover, or "boyfriend" as we call it. It's really a great situation since we all understand and respect the "rules" so to speak. They're relationship is more like friends with benefits, but going out to do things and staying over for the weekend. Yet it is understood that there is no interest in a romantic aspect for them. I felt like the next step i wanted to take was to be locked in a chastity device. So i talked with my wife about it. Again, it was pretty easy. I suggested it and she immediately agreed it would be fun. So i bought a cheap generic thing (i forget the brand, etc) to try it out for a trial run before investing in a higher end device. It was definitely a lot of fun but i was soon craving longer tern play. So I looked around and was attracted to the Jailbird from Mature Metal. So currently we are awaiting the device. It should arrive in April sometime. I feel like the luckiest man in the world to have met such an incredible woman like her. So that's kind of our journey so far. I'm looking forward to sharing more experiences, hearing all of yours' , as well as learn and have fun! Thank you for reading. Have a great day!
     
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    Welcome
     
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    welcome. Good luck to all three of you...
     
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    Hello, I read your introducting story with pleasure. Nice to see you here.:)
     
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    Welcome to cm. I think you will like the jail bird. You won’t even know it’s there if it’s fit properly except when You are excited
     
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    Wow! Great to have you here!
     
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    Thank you!
     
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    Thank very much! We are enjoying ourselves so far!
     
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    Thank you, I'm happy to be here. I'm happy that you found it interesting.
     
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    Thank you. Yes, i thought it would be very comfortable for longer use. I measured meticulously so I'm hoping it will work out the first time as I am eager to try it out.
     
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    Thank you so much for your warm welcome!
     
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    Welcome!
    I have been locked in MM devices for almost 3 years -first Queens keep and them watchful mistress. Great devices and very helpful people
     
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    It did take me a while to dial in the fit so be patient if you have to make adjustments
     
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    Will do. Thank you. Any tips for getting it right?
     
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    My experience so far has been very positive as well! I'm glad to know others have had sucess with their devices.
     
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    Talk with Mistresd Metal and William and they can help.
    I had to send my device back a few times to make different adjustments
     
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    The turnaround time for adjustments is very fast
     
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    Thanks for your input! I'm very excited to see it in my hands and get it just right. I'll probably keep a journal of sorts of my experience and share things from time to time.
     
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    Welcome from a fellow Michigander and enjoy your journey.
     
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    Welcome! I have been wearing my Jail Bird for close to 5 years now (not full time!) I agree that once you get the gap just right you will not know it's on you. I/We have sent my JB back to MM twice for tweaking, first, my cuff ring and the last time it was there my wife wanted the cage shortened. He has made my cage as small as possible still allowing for my spikes to be inserted. I don't think they offer the spike strip any more.
    Enjoy your new belt and this exciting lifestyle.

    Glad to see other Michigan folks here! We should start a club :)
     
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    I tried those spikes for a short while it was fine but ouch! :)
     
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    Fun not fine
     
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    Thank you! Awesome to know there are some of you so close!
     
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    Hey, yeah, that could be a fun idea!
     
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    I'm not sure I would want to try the spikes, personally. So far I just have the device. I considered it briefly, but it doesn't seem to be for me. I can definitely see where it would be exciting, however!
     
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