Married 25+ years and looking to keep things exciting, so looked into chastity over a year ago. Wife supportive but we haven't taken it full time as have been experimenting with devices I can wear more than a day or two. Have MM WM cage which is best by far and still working out the soreness of the scrotum issue, but better now. Have been a long time panties wearer, so the submissive side and sexy aspect is already there. Occasionally like to dress up but rare, but the sissy side does somewhat appeal. While I fantasize about being cuckolded and made to be a sissy in front of a bull, that is merely in my mind and not part of current reality. Look forward to learning more and feel free to reach out with your thoughts, suggestions or questions. Thanks!