Hi all all, lots to learn and share!

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    Married 25+ years and looking to keep things exciting, so looked into chastity over a year ago. Wife supportive but we haven't taken it full time as have been experimenting with devices I can wear more than a day or two.
    Have MM WM cage which is best by far and still working out the soreness of the scrotum issue, but better now.
    Have been a long time panties wearer, so the submissive side and sexy aspect is already there. Occasionally like to dress up but rare, but the sissy side does somewhat appeal. While I fantasize about being cuckolded and made to be a sissy in front of a bull, that is merely in my mind and not part of current reality.
    Look forward to learning more and feel free to reach out with your thoughts, suggestions or questions. Thanks!
     
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    Welcome to the site and good luck on your further adventures with your wife.

    Is the soreness on the scrotum merely chafing or something more serious? If it is just chafing, I'd suggest vaseline or something similar. If you both give it time to heal and keep at it, your body usually gets used to it so that it is much less of an issue going forward.
     
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    Welcome. I hope you find a device that suits you and that you and your wife continue to enjoy your exploration of chastity.
     
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    Thanks Unlucky. Soreness is the red chafing on the underside of the scrotum. Use coconut oil liberally when I put the cage on. Opened up the gap to try and get some more space to reduce the chafing, so time will tell.
    Appreciate the feedback and kind words.
     
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    Thanks LesterBallard, it is a fun and interesting journey to be sure.
     
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    Dfberns Living the dream, one day at a time

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    Welcome to the boards. As a fellow newbie, I have found this site to be informative, and friendly. Looking forward to learning and venturing on...
     
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    Thanks for the welcome! Lots of useful information so far. Look forward to sharing and learning from you all.
     
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    Welcome. Sounds like you have quite a few thoughts going on there. Try one thing at a time.
    Happy your wife is on board.

    As far as the chafing, @Unlucky 's lube idea helps. Just if the spot is small and directly between
    the ring and the underside of the cage it could be a little tight and pinching. A little more gap
    will help. Make sure it is healed before going forward. That way it is easier to tell if it worked
    and not to prolong the healing. Always takes a little time to get the issues worked out.:+1:
     
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