Hey all. I am a 36 yo male, my wife is 35 and we have 2 young kids (6 and 4 yo). My wife is very vanilla and I am the more kinky one. After watching a lot of porn over the years I have become fixated on 2 fetishes... 1 is chastity and the other is cuckolding. I have found this forum from chastity mansion Tumblr page a week ago. Today I have confessed to my wife for the first time about my chastity fetish... 2 things, first she was not surprised, she told me she knew about it for few years now, second, she didn't rule that out on the spot. We literally had a genuine discussion about the subject and how it can benefit both of us, which got me extremely scared and excited at the same time... I don't know if I will be able to stop musterbating (currently I do this every day) so how can I be locked away... But the thought of her taking over control is making me horny so much. We agreed on her teasing me more often for now but without letting me cum and in return I will kiss her feet after she is done toying with me... What is going on!? OMG... I am so scared she is going to like it and actually lock me up... This is crazy and I can't stop thinking about it... There is no backing down now... Would love to hear some feedback!
Welcome, she's going to Love it. Your going to so attentive to her needs and wants once your not wanking off every day. As for Cuckolding, if she desires to want it, your going to encourage her after you haven't had a daily orgasm. Women are missing out on getting everything they want by not having their partner in Chastity.
Great to be able to enjoy such couple time exploring different tastes and fetishes at this time when kids can be bearing down so much.. you have a young family.. dont gamble everything away by pushing boundaries too far.. in cuckolding you are literally encouraging the wife to look out for potential partners albeit only for sexual benefits.. but once emotion sinks in…and women are more emotional.. you dont wish to be a single father at this time.. as for chastity.. go ahead.. explore, practise and preach it! Nothing beats the satisfaction of seeing ones wife pleasured while himself is denied.
Hey @Andy88 and @Missy Tanya. Thank you so much for your comments... Actually about cuckolding this is something that turns me on but only as a fantasy, I didn't plan to go there and didn't tell my wife about it. I am currently freaking out about me confessing to her about chastity. I am not sure I will be able to withstand locking my cock and giving up control. I told her I want her to lock me up and now the ball is in her court and I don't know how to handle my mixed emotions. I am excited and scared at the same time. I was sure she will reject it immediately, but she listened and said she is planning to tease me more and we agreed that I will kiss her feet after every time she teases me and won't take me all the way to orgasm. This is unlike anything we ever did before, I feel like things are in motion and that she might end up liking it!!
Do you have a cage? Once you introduce a cage into your relationship, you will go through the typical “getting used to it” phase. Often the keys will be left on the dresser or her night stand. Eventually, you get to where you can wear it for days at a time and overnight. Then at some point, you will notice the keys are gone. You will briefly panic. THAT is when you realize it is very real. And, she does like it.
Ohhh my god!! I am losing control this is making me so hot! I need to surrender and kiss my wife's feet and ass.... She is going to take over and I can't fight it. I have started shifting my behavior, I am trying to please her more already, doing everything she asks me to imagining my cock is locked! I don't have a cage yet... I have just told her about my kink
Hello and welcome to the group. Sounds like you’ve started this the right way by telling your wife right up front you are interested in chastity. Lucky for you, she didn’t immediately turn you down and is willing to try something new. Soon, if you’re lucky, you will learn what it means to be careful what you wish for. Enjoy the ride and keep us posted
Welcome, a lot of work to do for sure. Like lany I pass from daily wanking to few z year ans some to zero. I am sure we can help you on this. For cuckholding I have like many her experirnce to dhare, explore the gorum and dare to post we will guide you.