Hey all 32 y/o gay guy here

Hey all- my fiancé (25m) and I (32m) have been exploring chastity play over the past few months and I just stumbled on this community. I realize that this might be more of a straight community but I’m hoping to join to learn about folks’ dynamics, experiences, how you all have your fun, etc.

In my relationship I’m mostly a top (giver) and I’ve been finding that I really enjoy the denial, desperation, and how good cumming feels when I’m finally able to. My partner likes how I focus on him more when I’m locked up and is also starting to enjoy the power it gives him (for better or for worse ). Both of us would say that chastity play has enhanced our relationship.

Here’s some info about our current play style:

• Daily lock up: I've been consistently locked up over the last few weeks.
• Earning unlock time: Through working out, begging, or chores, I can earn 'edge-only' unlock time, typically around 15-20 minutes daily.
• Fun together: About 1-3 times per week, we have together sessions where my partner usually cums first. He then uses a dice roll to set a timer for a count down to get caged back up. It's a race against time that adds some excitement, whether I’m able to cum in that time or not.

Looking forward to joining this community and learning as we go!