So as part our flr and our shared major kink beside the cage obviously is spanking. This came yesterday and not sure where else it would be appreciated or feared lol. Fucker stings
Uhhh. My wife made me a similar gift for christmas three years ago. It is way more humiliating to be spanked with a cooking spoons than with anything else.
Gave me flashbacks of my childhood at first. There's definitely a humiliation factor. It's become her go to since she got it.
We have a spoon with a Bee on it, but this paddle carries a fair bit of weight and is somewhat scary. She uses it from time to time, and a few times been restrained so I cant get away which is very fun to think about, not so fun when its happening, but a relief when its over lol We also have a cane but that has only been used a few times. Of course I wish she would use any of them more often, then at the same time I cam glad she doesn't. Same as orgasm denial go figure, wishes she would deny me more glad she mostly doesn't lol.
I've come to really enjoy impact play. I think largely because she enjoys it and it's my main form of attention while caged. I don't get let out to be edged any of that. So I think my brain has started translating the spoon or flogger to relief. Usually I have on wrist and ankle shackles and a nipple clamp. Calls me her good boy. It's hot asf now I think about.
That pretty much sums it up, though the only other thing I am permitted to do is kiss her on her bits a few times after her shower while she stands with her towel draped over her, when she is done she drapes it over my head which is signal for me to hang her towel up. When she is not in the mood she wont let me...and its funny that such a little thing becomes so important.
Her thing is foot rubs, a clean house and ice cream cones lol. I hate feet, despise them. That said I've come to see foot rubs as intimacy in leui of a traditional lack of it.
LOL I never knew I had a foot fetish till I met my partner. She let me fuck them once (years ago) I nearly put her back out..lol Each to their own I guess, but she does have beautiful feet. I admire them regularly especially painted toe nails.
Not kinkshaming lol. Her feet aren't ugly or anything. After months of foot rubs soft to. It's just feet ugh lol.
Come to think of it she's joked about kissing her feet lately. She admitted recently she's trying to "train" me. My tone at certain times is current thing I need to work on apparently. A freshly showered foot i would consider maybe.