Helloooo: Locked in a D/s relationship

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    Hello all. My KH and I have lurked on here for quite some time to read advice relating to chastity relationships. I am locked in a MM Jailbird that has been tweaked several times to find the right fit. I am locked 24/7, work, sleep, family events... although I am let out for PIV about once a week, sometimes more depending on how much she wants it.

    We have been in our D/s dynamic and chastity for several months now and are finding our rythm. I can be a bit bratty and cocky at times, she can be too lenient at times too, but we love each other and I am trying to be a better sub for my beautiful domme. She is quite happy with a collar around my neck and a hairbrush her hand.

    I just wanted to introduce myself as I will probably start posting a little bit.
     
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    I too can be a cockt twat at times and my KH too lenient . WELCOME!!
    I do wonder what would happen if my partner didn't take my bullshit at all one day lol I'd be fudged lol
     
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    Welcome to our community and please post. Participation makes it better for everyone.
     
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    Sometimes she gets fed up and I find that I have a very red ass for the evening. Oddly my response is usually to try and bury my face between her thighs as an apology for pushing her.
     
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    hello and welcome both. You seem to be negotiating your best way forward in a very positive way, learning as you go, not making assumptions, being prepared to change and adapt.

    good luck to you both. I'm sure you'll find a positive way that suits you both.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Hi and welcome!
     
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