This is just to say hello. Have lurked on this amazing website for a while. Thought I was alone in my feelings until I saw them in black and white, written by others on here. Have looked at other sites and as a submissive heterosexual male, I've found these rather offputtingly sexist and even a bit racist. Not sure what I can bring to this as I am not in a relationship at present and male chastity doesn't mean that much in my circumstances! xbb