Hello there.

Hello y’all.

I’m not too new to chastity in general, but only as a kind of masterbation aid, or scene-specific addition to my usual kink.

I am joining up here because I want to move toward it being a part of my lifestyle.

I have three partners, my wife, who is mostly a bottom, as well as a Domme friend and a sub I recently collared.

An interesting quirk of this is that my perspective keyholder, my wife, does not have a dominant bone in her body, sexually. One reason I am here is to maybe get some advice on that. Don’t know if anyone else has their keys being held by a bottom, but surely I’m not alone on that.

I brought up chastity to her about a week ago, specifically my interest in making it a lifestyle, and asking her to keyhold. She is very interested and seems excited about me doing it, but is not sure how she wants to go about keyholding yet. She really does not want to be the dominant one in bed. So we have started, for the past week, with me self-locking, with it on my honor to only unlock with her. So far she likes it, especially the extra flirtation and attention she gets due to my extra horniness.

Anyway, hello to you all!