Hi everyone. I’m a 43 yr old married submissive and I’m newly caged by my wife and KH, @Gloria88. It’s now day 10 of chastity. This is the first time we’ve ever tried this. Years ago we talked about getting a cage but it was mostly roleplay talk and not serious. Then recently, I brought it up as a possible way to help our marriage. It seems like my wife was in the right place to consider it. I started reading what guys in cages were saying about how it helped their relationship. It seemed interesting. Well my wife thought we should try it so we ordered a cage. It’s an eBay knock off of the kink3d cobra. I read enough to know most people don’t get the right fit with the first one so I figured I should buy a cheap one. Well it arrived and it turns out it fits well and is comfortable. Way more comfortable than I ever would have guessed a cock cage could be. For the first week I was wearing it during the day. Then we decided I should try overnight. Surprisingly, it didn’t bother me. When I woke up aroused it was a different story. Ha. But I basically had access to the key the first 7 or 8 days. Last night she took the key away and decided we were starting 24/7 until Saturday, when she would release me. That changed everything. No longer having access to the key, and her making me believe I have no say in what happens going forward, is an incredibly intense feeling. Thrilling and terrifying at the same time. I should definitely mention that for the last ten days things have been better than they have been in years. Anyway, I look forward to talking to everyone. Thanks for reading. ✌
Welcome to the rest of your life dude, I've read your wife's posts, doesn't look like there's any turning back now, so buckle up and enjoy the ride.
I don’t think either of us is sure how long this will last. She’s still struggling a bit. We’ll see how it goes. But we’re both enjoying the ride so far.
Welcome to the mansion and yes when you lose control of your keys it's a whole new level of excitement and fear
Welcome to you both. I read your wife’s revelatory post and it sounds like you are both finding a good place for yourselves. Keep at it and good luck.
Just wait until she starts edging you. All your erotic energy will be focused on her because you’ll never know if it’s going to be your lucky day, a ruined O, or simply locked back in your cage horny and praying for the next time.
We opened the cage for the first time after dinner and I probably wore it 4 hours that first night. I wore it 10-12 hours a day for the next three days. Then I began wearing it overnight. Basically 24/7 since.
@BigWoodsmanLittleWood I assume you didn’t get released yesterday due to pushing your KH’s buttons and having time added. How are you feeling about being caged now? Knowing your wife controls your orgasms and erections is incredibly powerful and life changing for both of you.
NICE!! I know my wife, who is very kind and friendly to all has an inner “domme” in her. I hope she embraces chastity like how your wife does. QUOTE="BigWoodsmanLittleWood, post: 595783, member: 105764"]I did not get released. My wife says being caged is good for me. She’s so powerful.[/QUOTE]
Ah that's the perfect mindset for her to be in. That right there is what every man hopes for who entertains this kink.