Hi. Male man here. 39+ years of happy matrimony. We've been dabbling in chastity for a couple of years. I have 10 cages...mostly ones $90 and below. And A272 is the most comfortable. I just can't justify the triple digit cages at this point. It isn't a lifestyle by any means. I have no desire to give up orgazms for the rest of my life, nor does she expect me to. I've been doing pussy worship for several months now, and she really enjoys that. Bigger ohOhOHspasms for her doing that, when we then hunker down with her wand. I play different rhythms in my head to common songs with interesting beats, and transfer that through my fingers from the wand. It works for us. She is still working on overcoming denying me while indulging herself. I think she is currently waiting for me to say "It is O.K. for you to lock me up again." Anyway. I've lurked for a while and decided to sign up today. Greetings to all.
More: We've had several good conversations about our chastity play. We have no desire for: Permanent Orgasm denial or cage wear. Sissy Play Cuckolding Pegging (a time comes when hemorrhoids prevent some things.) We are into: BDSM: Her topping and me bottoming. Cage Wear More for Her, Less for Him. Orgasm Denial Teasing Sexting
Welcome and hope you find positive vibes in the mansion as I have found many who share your views too. If anything I have found the mansion is a very comfortable place for supporting all aspects for Chastity no matter what given desires and relationships .
Locked for half of June. Unlocked for anniversary (#40) vacation. Lock up command given in the morning. Locked again as of yesterday at 4:30 p.m. local time.
For the last week or so, Queen_Add-a-Day and I have been exchanging encrypted texts using the type of verbiage one would expect at a Renaissance Faire. Formal. Reserved. Wordy. I started it, but she has quickly caught on. It has spilled over to the way we both talk as we have sex. "Oh Nay, My Lady. As thy sub subject, I allow myself no expectation to have my privey member freed from its carnal shackles. My station in life is but to serve thee and thy own fleshly need and passions. Hath not the goodly Apostle stated in the redacted theology of One Corinthians Seven that sayeth..." Verse 1. "Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good to abstain from sexual relations....The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, ... the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife." Yea verily! Thou art following the instructions of Holy Writ when thou doth confine the manhood that doth duely belongeth to thee, for it falleth to thine authority to causeth thy souse to abstain from sexual relations at thy discretion and the wasteful spilling it its seed." I have become aware that auto correct and spell correct has a hard time with all the -eth endings...but so be-eth it. Keeping it playful. Keeping it fun. We talked about her making my lock periods "indefinite" and she is pondering how she will practice that reality.
So we are doing Locktober. She is mor engaged with her own sex need and my denial. She set a 3 orgasm a week goal for herself . Enjoying the expo.
With her consent, I spent 1.75 hours in self bondage before she freed me. Tonight I should be locked again and have an opportunity for extended vulva veneration. Life is good.