Hello all

Hello, I thought I would do a post rather than lurk!

I am a good looking guy with a few grey hairs, but I keep myself fit. I have always been interested in BDSM, I guess I am largely submissive, and VERY worshipful of women. I think they are godesses!

I have done a few things in my life, and have local friends in the UK who are into this lifestyle.

A few years ago I learned about chastity play, and bought a curve, then later a CB3000. I found that locking myself up was a deeply spiritual experience, which has made me crave the hand of a woman to hold that key. Basically, I found that when denied my own right to orgasm, it made me concentrate entirely on pleasuring a woman, which is, in fact, what I have always wanted to do.

So I guess my reason in being here is to find like minded people and to acheive that goal one day. Even now, just thinking about it, is driving me crazy! I long for the day when the temptation to orgasm is taken from me. Only then will I see woman in all her beauty, and make her pleasure the sole source of my pleasure. That's what I call being in heaven.

 

Thanks all! I have updated my profile as Mistress Watchful has asked, but can't find out how to upload my picture. I am sure I will figure it out soon. And yes, I am from London UK.

Incidentally I am interested in the links between chastity, BDSM and tantra. I think submission and chastity is good for guys.

 

Ahhh, Ms Linda... your signature contains one of my favourite quotes... here is the full version... I agree with you...

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood

and sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveller, long I stood

and looked down one as far as I could

to where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,

and having perhaps the better claim

because it was grassy and wanted wear;

though as for that, the passing there

had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay

in leaves no feet had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I --

I took the one less travelled by,

and that has made all the difference

 

Got it!

Thank you so much, Mistress Watchful

 

Thank you Goddess Jen, I am very humbled by your comments

 

I agree Mistress Watchful. If anything, my hands should be gripped -behind my back

 

Thank you, Fantasee. It seems a lovely place. I feel at home here