I'm happy to be involved here, I'm looking for advice and support from like minded submissive males and strong confident women. First things first, I am a small man. I am not fully secure in my height, but I am an even 5'0" at 119lbs. I am a normal weight for my height, I could pack on more muscle but that won't change my height problem. I am content with how I look minus the height disadvantages, so I really am not motivated to work out. I am 23 years old and I'm nearing the peak of my male sex drive and that's what makes my current chastity difficult. My mistress towers over me at 6'1" and I have been in chastity since October. I'm unable to remove the steel cage. My mistress has modified it to make it easier to pee and to self-clean. I use a tooth brush, soap and a hair dryer thoroughly to prevent bacterial growth. I'm a phase where I want this cage off, but my better judgement is at odds with my urges. My mistress is in her mid 40s, she told me to trust the process and that it will be worth it when I have a tamed and controlled sex drive. I chose chastity to subdue my urge to masturbate. The goal is to take the cage off at the end and still act like I'm always under lock and key without it. I'm also quite easy to lift for the average women. I'm into carry and lift sessions, they're like a reward to me and I love how my mistress is stronger than me. My mistress is approaching her 50s and her I am at 23 being a total beta male. I love it.