Its not always easy having your long term partner and lover as a sub at times! Especially when he has alpha male pangs due to his upbringing and breeding lol Lately I have been getting grumpily barked at if I decide that I don't want to do what Pet is moaning about at the time, for instance, this morning, he decided, that instead of cooking breakfast he wanted to do the kitchen, which I didn't know about until he asked if I could give him a hand a second....And when I pointed out that I didn't really feel like sorting through old clothes or cleaning the kitchen this early in the day as I have virtually NO energy he got in a snappy grump. I don't think he realises that although I am ill and the moment and still trying to find the energy to indeed help with things around the house (I think it only fair that I set a good example to my son) That if I wanted too, I could have him do EVERYTHING, and not help him AT ALL. I get huffed at or "Fine..." I cannot wait to get him into a bloody device again, much less testosterone to deal with. He also doesn't seem to get that when he has this macho grumpy moments that he affects my mood and I don't feel like dominating him or playing with him when he makes me feel like crap. I am trying to get the point across that I want to do this 24-7, so it doesn't matter if we are in town or at home he must talk to me with respect regardless. GAH.:spider: Must be his time of the month.