I am The Wanderer. I am new to chastity, I've been looking at it for a year or two but have not gotten directly into anything. I recently bought a tube style belt off Ebay. It works really nice and feels great. I hope to convince the wife to allow me to get an all metal hip style belt. I dont know from what site to get it from so it anyone has advice on that topic I'd like to hear it. L8R all !!