Gone the other way??

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    Hey, me again..

    I’m currently locked 24/7 due to excessive masterbation. Let out for PIV every couple of weeks or so. I used to masterbate aleast once or twice a day, and always had sex on the brain. But since being locked I’ve found I’ve completely lost interest in sex. I’m not even to bothered when my partner unlocks me. Wondering if anyone has had similar.
     
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    Not at all. Sex is always in my mind since I've been locked 24/7. I see my wife as candy now.
     
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    I think you may of read it wrong. Sex used to always be on my mind, but since being locked I’ve lost all interest.
     
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    I lose interest but not a taste for her. I desire her more than she wants me, hence the lock up. Keeps me from cheating as my hands don’t seem to quench the need for taste and feel
     
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    I lost interest in cumming but have great pleasure in consuming and getting horny and wet.
     
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    Sounds like you two will need to talk about things if one of you isn’t happy.
     
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    The end result of the male chastity varies..
    some able to achieve better erection, some downright fail to get it up. some develope PE yet some remain flaccid without ejaculation at all.
    the failure of erection since being restricted as in your case has rewired your neuron pathways that any external sexual stimulation is easily defeated with a physical restriction placed on the penis. So much so that even without such actual restriction, the brain may no longer triggers such signal and the interest in sex wanes off.
    An elephant in circus is only laced with a tiny chain. It learns that i cant escape since being bound with heavy chain months earlier so much so i doesnt even attempt with a loose chain.
    Is it not great that your wife is able to tame a sex monster..? My wife did…
     
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    This. This is what needs to be read by every member who asks this question. The end result is not static, YMMV on how your brain reacts. The one size fits all responses that are regurgitated so often on here are just false. I do believe whatever result you end up with is temporary though I cant confirm it, at least for me it was about a 2-3 week period with the belt removed and I went back to my old self pre- chastity belt.
     
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    I don’t think he read it wrong. You asked if anyone has experienced similar.
    He said, no way; he thinks about sex all the time.
    I do too. 22 days locked for me. Some of the bouts I have with the horny feelings are intense. Way more intense than they were prior to enforced male chastity.
    But I wouldn’t say I’m horny 24/7, which is what I think I want.
    Chastity is the ultimate mind-f***,
    Don’t like how it’s making you feel? Keep it locked another 5 minutes. It could totally change
     
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    Lol at sex monster. I think a better word would be a perv monster. Your limp tiny dick was of no use anyways.
     
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    me too
     
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    I wouldn’t say sex is off my mind at all… but being locked up for so long now I find when we have nights without any fun I appreciate our time together far more. So maybe I’m more comfortable without it now.
    I also have no interest in watching porn now as I can’t masturbate. if I do I find myself aroused and frustrated.
    There has been one spell where my wife was just occupied with other areas of life. Nearly a week without any intimacy or teasing. (Which I know isn’t a long time by some comparisons), but I found my drive to do anything was far lower during this time.
    However, I find that I’m far more easily turned on than ever before…

    You didn’t actually state that you were unhappy with the situation being as it is, but perhaps what is missing is the intimacy and connection with your partner. Do you have daily foreplay that doesn’t lead to sex? Is unlocking for PIV more a routine rather than something you’ve been made to really want?
    If sex isn’t on your mind is it because you’re just not being stimulated to think about it now you no longer masturbate?
     
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    I go through periods where my interest in sex is zero, where I feel almost asexual.

    The nofap people, who cut out all porn, masturbation, and orgasm (PMO) call it the "deadzone" or flatline.

    If you look around on google it is quite normal.
     
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    I’m always horny! But it just focuses me on serving my madam better!
     
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    No I havent lost interest in Sex.
    The difference happened to me.

    Before my wife and i started this FLR thing, I was jerking off several times a day. In the evening I stayed awake to jerk off on pornsites. And... I had no sex anymore woth my wife.

    Since I showed her a site about FLR and Chastity "play" - it developed not to stay a play and evolve to an almost 24 / 7 Chastity almost never inside new normal - I dont know how to masturbate anymore without being with her and getting JOI from her. My cock even doesnt get hard anymore without her involved.
    Though I found my role in a lickslave and enjoy it to please her secually as I never did my own orgasm even fell into background.
    Well she found some ways to make go so crazy like never before, so I get addicted to this new sex.
    So i need Sex but no orgasms. The last big one was 10 of march 2021. Since then she worked out some other phantastic ones for me but mostly ruined and to milk me regularly.
     
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    Exactly. It's hard but it's also wonderful.
     
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    #18 NerdyGuy, Aug 10, 2022
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    Negotiate daily teasing as a part of the arrangement, alternatively a more frequently release to increase hormone levels (never understood the longterm "no orgasm" play) or just stop playing the chastity game for a period if it's not attractive for you anymore. The fantacy is that the man is "forced" into chastity. But reality should be that it is concent based on an agreement that both partners are happy with. Test how it feels to be unlocked some months, and what it does to your sex drive and relationship. A loving partner will understand.
     
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    I no longer masterbate, and crave sex
     
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