Hi All, I have been a long time lurker as a guest to this forum and decided to take the plunge. The reason I didn't take the plunge earlier is because I am gay and this seems to be a largely hetro group but I determined that the conversational content is still the same and it would be great to make new "friends". I am 42 years old, living in Melbourne, Australia. I am a gay guy who has been in a relationship with my partner for 10 years now. I have a chastity device, I don't even know what it's called... we have tried it a few times and my partner and I 'get off" on talking about chastity more often than we do it... but it is a deep desire of mine. I have HEAPS of things I want to post / ask / write / share and so I won't overwhelm you in this into and I certainly won't flood the forum. Feel free to say hello It's certainly great to be here! Mark
I'm gay also. Been watching vids and pics of chasity and it's gotten me turned on. So I took the plunge. Ordered 3 cages. 1st one came yesterday. So 1 day locked now. I think CM should create a gay section. Or a total new CM dedicated to gay chasity. I'm not sure how long I'll stay locked but 1 day in I'm all horned up. Unfortunately I'm doing this solo so no KH or anyone to tease me. I want to start producing more precum and learn or get frustrated learning to Ruined O. Unfortunately iv always had a hard time with other people getting me off and never came while fucking someone so cast as a BTTM. Good to see another queer here. I'm sure there is more here lurking. Welcome to CM
I think that the best part of the post Is where you said you wanted to write and do your thing here, and is more important than worrying too much about what anyone else does, gay or otherwise. Welcome. I'm Monnica. I'm a trans lesbian. I do get your journey though, not dependent on whom it is you decide to call your partner. I look forward to hearing what you have to say, and yes, should I see it will chime in on how to present this to your partner, in tactful ways. I tend to think chastity could really be at play in gay men if certain people within it understood how it could be a really playful and fun thing. I think the sub minded get it, so the hard part is in showing the more dominant why it can be a wonderful thing. As well as when and how. We all enjoy supporting our own kind, which is chastity enthusiasts, and I would like to welcome you. A great attitude like yours is an important entity and can help offer all of us some insight too. Do so. Jump on in here. Write with vigour, learn, enjoy. Good luck. I don't answer at all in DM form, but do interact in the threads. Have fun! M.
I wonder if chastity is actually something that can be incorporated into a gay relationship a lot easier sometimes. After all with a heterosexual relationship it's generally the woman in control. Now I know some women can take this role on very easily and go "full on" with the control side but most women have to think it through first and may not understand "why you want that!" But blokes with all that testosterone, I think would probably get the idea a lot more easily! Just my thoughts here, not trying to pigeon hole people or anything!