Well, I’ve visited and read the forum many times over the last few years, but finally just created an account. I’ve been interested in, and reading about chastity for several years. However, I’m now 50, getting divorced, and haven’t had sex in 3+ years. I recently splurged and bought 3 different cages on eBay, including the one that is my avatar. I’ve been self locking, but have yet to stay locked more than 24 hours. My home situation with kids, and my job both make it difficult. But here goes, I’m wading deeper into the pool, day by day.