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    thank you. i am put in metal ones now.
     
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    only my 10 cents - and I've never tried an HT - but yes, looking at photos they look like I'd get a similar uncomfortable fit as per the first post at the top of this thread.

    I need the gap between ring & cage to be deeper front-to-back or my balls get badly squashed.
     
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    I wear 55mm rings. Not all devices ship with rings over 49-50mm as you have learned. Some men need bigger for simple physiological reasons. 60mm rings are too big for me, 50mm are too small. 53 or 54 might be perfect, but 55 is good enough and easy to find with some devices.

    Simple as this: 50mm rings might be too small for you. The rings are not something you "grow into". Your cock might shrink over time but your lower abdomen and genital spacing and testicles won't. Don't force yourself into a ring too small. That's just a bad idea and as you learned, painful.
     
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    I agree! The ball gap is crucial! For me I find the smaller the gap the better.
     
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    :eek::eek::eek: Not me. Too small a gap makes it unwearable long term due to pain from pinching.
     
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    I find if the gap is as small as it can be it stops the edge of the cage and/or ring digging in to my balls.
     
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    Well just managed my first 24 hours trapped in my cage. Managed to sleep ok.
    I will only be out for a scrub before refitting. I am hoping this will continue through to the weekend.
    :+1::):lockkey:
     
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    Hi Chirone,
    With the cheap plastic and trying to make it fit the plastic components would crack and break into pieces.
    I have been able to weld the pieces back together and reinforce with metal. This has added some bulk however no seems to last. If it does break I can repair it.

    I have been to a few stores to see if I can find a suitable steel replacement with a larger base ring without much success. All seem to offer 50mm as the largest.
    However I am finding with longer wear that I feel I may soon be able to fit into a 50mm ring or I am finding a few affordable online options just need to find a style I like.
    Custom made is still out of my price range.

    I am now on my third full day of wearing my current unit after spending last week in it every day except sleeping. Now I am sleeping caged as well. :)
     
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    Hi Design is me.

    I am inspired by the fact your wife has turned the corner.
    My wife has been a little open to the idea since I first brought up this idea however does not appear to actually want me to wear it and has not suggested that I am to lock up.
    However approx. 11 days ago during a passionate evening I almost begged and managed to get her to say "you will be locked up 24/7". Yay for me.
    I know it was only dirty talk but I have taken that as meaning a direct instruction so I began daily wearing to work and around the house whenever I was awake.
    Monday morning I fitted my cage in the morning and the only time I have removed it is to wash.
    She has now started to ask why I am so affectionate lately, I have been sending random love messages from work, trying to give her little rubs without the build up to sex.
    I am hoping by this weekend I will reveal that I have been 24 hours a day locked and she will associate the improved behavior with being locked.
    Praying that this becomes her light bulb moment and that she will then allow me to purchase a better quality item.
    I know I can not stop thinking about her since I have gone 11 days without orgasm. I just need to get her to receive some well deserved spoiling without feeling compelled to give me anything except more time in chastity.
    I do not know how this will go however I feel she is getting so much closer to making me dreams a full time reality.
    Hoping to tell an even greater update next week.
     
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    Thanks for the advice.
    Sounds like these might be a good long term option.
    I think i still have to convince the wife that it will be money well spent.
     
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    Good luck. Don't be surprised if she doesn't jump right in and take the key. It may take time. Just keep showing her the benefits and she will hopefully come around. My wife still won't wear the key. She just hides it from me. I am still hopeful she will one day.
     
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    I’m high and tight in the mornings as the day goes on, then things hang low and loose. I tend to go with a slightly bigger ring, I worry to much about cutting off circulation.
     
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    Where did you find your 55mm ring? I have found a few that ship from the UK. I am in Australia and would prefer a local supplier however happy to purchase and ship from elsewhere if i hear enough positive coments
     
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    Some good news,
    I told my wife that I have been wearing my cage 24/7 since she told me that I would be 24/7 caged during a passionate evening 3 weeks ago.
    She did not believe that I was wearing it until she grabbed my little fellow.
    We then had a great evening of love making with a chat about wearing it more regularly.
    Unfortunately, my excitement broke the base again but this strengthened my argument for a stainless steel unit.
    I have now found a number of steel cages on Ebay that have a 52 or 53mm base ring so I think I will be making another purchase soon.
    I am excited.
     
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    Looks like the ring is too small go with large first see if it works for you if it doesn't burn see if you can leave it on for the day.you will have to go down to next one till it burns that is the one that is too small go back up and use it that should be the one
     
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    So I have purchased another cage. I hopefully will attach a jpeg.
    My plastic cage had been repaired so often i do not think I can continue to repair too many more time.
    I have been without a cage for a week but had success repairing it this morning so happily back in my cage. :)
    I am expecting my new one at the end of July hopefully this will be ok. Has a 52mm curved ring.
    If any body has positive or negative info about this cage I would love to hear about it.
    I just hope it fits and holds together better than my previous model.
     

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    Awful big gap you may need a50 or 45 mm ring
     
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    I began with a CB6000s which had base rings in sizes up to 50mm. This was unbearable to wear when I first tried and could not last more than about 10 minutes before the burning sensation became too intense.
    On my 2nd attempt to fit it using lots of lube the ring snapped before I could close the top of the ring.
    I have used some of the smaller rings to weld it back together. I increased the width to 55mm height remained unchanged. This became wearable but tight eventually breaking again. I have not had much luck with it breaking many times. I then found a silicon ring that could be drilled with a 55mm inside diameter that allowed for some stretch through repeated use it broke at the drill holes. I have now replaced with a 53mm ring that is tight to get on but comfortable once fitted. This has brought me to make the purchase above as I feel this will be the closest to the size I am currently wearing. I feel the only pressure points is the sharp edge which I will hopefully not get with the new cage.
    I should post some pictures of the broken bits and repairs I have done to keep myself caged to the point I am now able to wear this 24 hours a day sleep with it and only remove for when I need to clean properly.
    It has been fitted since 5am and will not be removed for cleaning until tomorrow at 5pm 36 hours.
    This may seem short compared to some on here but will be a good start for my journey. I will be re caged after shower and continue until at least the weekend.
     
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    Now 36 hours without unlocking. Wife unaware that I wore it through the night.
     
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    Awaiting my first chastity cage. Went with steel and 50mm ring. Not sure what to expect. Ideas from you experienced ones?
     
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    60 hours removed to wash and back on again. This is feeling so good.
     
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    Hope it goes well for you.
    The reason I went with CB6000s copy was to see how different rings sizes felt. I was not able to wear this with a 50mm ring however some use the smaller sizes.
    If you have measure correctly you should have some success.
    Look forward to hearing how it goes for you.
     
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    well i hope your first cage is nice and comfy cos most are not and then you have get another. but dont try and keep it on a long long time if you have not done it before cos it take a bit to get use to having a cage lock on you.
     
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    Now going past 84 hours caged with the only time out for cleaning.
     
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