I don’t know if this is the right place to post this. I am so excited that after many attempts over this past year, I have successfully given myself a ruined orgasm! I have been trying to get the timing right and learn when stimulation needs to end. I finally did it! It is both incredibly frustrating as I have read about, but kind of exciting that I was able to do it.
Wife did that to me just last night. I went to sleep frustrated and today i am still frustrated. She came i think twice last night. I aaked her this morning if i could be allowed to unlock and satisfy myself. I received a quick reply... no. She said its the point to it all. I will not orgasm anytime soon. My vanilla wife is slowly taking to this.
She does not know what she is missing. I hope in the future your wife comes around. The benefits to her are incredible.
Never give up hope mine was same at start. If I knew then , when it appeared she had no interest to where we are now i would have had no frustrations or doubts if chastity was for us