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    I’m currently being Domm’d by my ex-wife. She has caged me in the past. After we got divorced. The cages we’ve used have been limiting. I am currently using the red chili sissy cage. The ring was too big and my balls kept falling out. The cage itself fit perfectly. I just received the smaller base ring I ordered and wore it for a day and it chafed pretty bad. I think it’s probably just the case of needing to wear it slowly to get my skin and body used to it. Any advice on that please feel free. My ex text me yesterday saying she wants to eventually cage me for 6 months straight with no cumming. The longest I’ve gone is between 1-2 weeks. That was with an older plastic cage. I’ve gone a month with no cumming but never 6. It’s exciting knowing she has no issue controlling me that long but terrifying as well. I’m a pretty masculine guy outwardly but behind closed doors she pegs me, humiliates me, and denies me. She’s made me wear her panties. All I love. I’d love her to cuck me if I’m being honest but so far I don’t think she’s interested. she once told a work friend that she cages me which turned me on so much. I want her to publicly expose me within limits. I don’t want my family or immediate circle to know. If she made me show my cage on to one of her friends I would probably cum in place.
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    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion enjoy your stay here.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and entertaining.
     
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    Welcome.
    How do you manage your chastity kink with new girlfriends?
     
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    I really haven’t been into dating yet really. But if 6 months happens I guess I won’t be dating at all I guess
     
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    hello @OwnedByF and welcome to here and i hope you like it here.
    ooh you been here a bit and not say hello.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    I got lots of questions

    1. If she is your ex, how would she cuck you? You are not together in a relationship, cuckolding would mean she is with you and has other sexual fun while still with you.

    2. If the relationship is over (ex), what is in it for her to be in charge of your orgasms? What benifit besides being cruel to an ex?

    3. Wouldn’t this arrangement get in the way of her moving on and finding a partner that isn’t an “ex”?

    4. Wouldn’t this arrangement get in the way of you moving on and finding a partner that wasn’t an “ex”?

    5. Being submissive to someone implies a high level of trust and affection, is it possible to have an abundance of either for an “ex”?

    6. Wouldn’t finding a partner that you can share this lifestyle with be preferable to this?

    7. Why would you willing prolong a connection with someone, once that relationship is gone and never going anywhere?

    8. Is this just a fantasy that you like to think of, and is in no way going to happen, because ex partners are ex’s for a reason?
     
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    As a person with an ex, I agree with @Nicoftime . I don't understand how that sort of relationship can work for either party. I could understand having a fantasy about how the feelings between 2 ex's could be erotic, humiliating or even vivid, but, in real life, I certainly have my doubts.
     
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    Well we have somewhat of an arrangement that until one of us are ready to start dating we would still have sex. The chastity started during that arrangement. I know that it’s probably true that continuing this keeps both of us from being able to move on and We should address that. But I was just going with the flow since I wasn’t in a place to start dating. All very valid questions. This is real not made up.
     
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    i 2 agree with Nicoftimes' ?s. However, if i were in a situation like this (real, not fantasy) i would also just go with it until one of us (it would be Her first) loses interest for whatever reason. All the relationship issues aside, i am such a submissive little bitch and would likely enjoy this as well. That said, i would NEVER trade or prefer this scenario over the absolutely fantastic, loving, caring marriage i have : ) !!!! As for the chaffing, if the ring is not causing blood flow issues or straight up immediate pain, you will likely get "conditioned" to it, but always listen to your body and take breaks when needed. Permanent harm is probably not what you or your ex want for you. Am i right? Good luck. Would love to hear about your "predicament" from time to time. LOL!
     
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    Tbh. I didn’t expect this thread to turn into a relationship come to Jesus moment. Lol. I have just been enjoying my kink while she has been willing to control it. I know she should probably start her next phase in life and create a lasting relationship with someone. Not sure if now is the time to start that conversation? As for the chaffing. It left a really bad abrasion where the base ring holds the bottom of my balls that had me come out of chastity for a week. No masturbating or cumming. But I’m almost healed again. And she wants me back in it as soon as possible. Probably need to start with a few hours every day.
     
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