Hello everyone Last night was my first time in Chastity. My wife agreed to be the keyholder. I should say that I've been thinking about this for a very long time, and it took years to get up the courage to talk with my wife. She was a little shocked at first but after some months she slowly agreed. She locked me last night and it appears she has had a good night sleep while I have been challenged all night. The cage remains on, I feel so horny and want to play with myself but .... Is this a normal adjusting period, I am assuming the body gets used to it and so does the mind. Anyway, happy to start the journey and interested to hear from anyone on their experiences. Thanks
It does take quite a bit of time to get used to it to be honest. It will probably take quite a while to find out which device is best for you as well. Is the idea, going forward, for you to be locked up long term or is it for "play time"?
Congrats on your first (of many) nights locked up. Yes, in time, it will get better. I call my first nights back in my cage "cage fighting" as my clitty seems to want t push on the bars! The bars are undefeated. LOL Take that sexual energy you're feeling and focus on your wife and making her life easier. Maybe spend some time showing her how happy you're being caged. I hope your wife likes oral
Hi and welcome to the Mansion. Yes, what you're going through is perfectly normal. You'll get horny AF and want to jerk off for relief but you will get used to it and it'll become enjoyable for you both. I'm on day 36 of my longest lockup session yet, but I don't suggest you start that long. Start with a few days and get progressively longer each time, so you don't overwhelm yourself. Feel free to share your experience and ask any other questions you have.