Hello, everyone. Although I had many fantasies as long as I can remember, my first r/l d/s type experience was in grad school with a close friend who had worked as a professional Domme to pay for her Masters degree. She introduced me to many things and helped me explore many things, particularly things involving leather of some kind striking skin, clamps, and rope. I felt pretty lucky because she never transgressed our established boundaries without discussing it first; she also helped me by nudging me to push myself a bit further than I thought I could go. Early on, my wife agreed to try some of the needs I expressed to her. She just wasn't into it, but I respected her willingness to try. I do many things now on my own which I will save for another post. I have thought about a chastity device for a while, but have never tried it. I am here to explore and share. I appreciate the opportunity to be part of the community. - aaron
Welcome! It sounds like you're just at the edge of the rabbit hole that chastity has been for me and, eventually, my wife Good luck to you!