I've been here a while but haven't really done this part yet. I was advised to sign up by the amazing Mistress Lucy herself, so obviously I did as I was told and signed up. Unfortunately due to a hectic life, I've not had much free time so haven't had chance to sort this out. Well, I'm 38 and living in Newcastle Upon Tyne. I work full time and constantly seeking some form of education when I am not working. Whether that's through distance learning at university or with online courses, I've got my hands full with many things from web development, computer programming and network testing. I am male, externally, for the most part, I do dress and currently waiting for my appointment with the gender clinic to discuss the options going forward as I do want to transition fully and be the woman on the outside, that I feel on the inside. I am switch, so depending on the partner etc, is whether I am submissive, or dominant. I never try and cross boundaries though if the partner is specifically one or the other, I don't try to make subs dominant, and vice versa. I'm also a huge geek, gamer and tech nerd. I really love coffee, wine and cognac too