Expected devotion to woman

Not devoted to all women, no. By definition that's impossible. You can't devote yourself to everyone, that's not possible.

However, I respect women greatly and I believe, as a generalisation, they are more worthwhile than men.

I don't think the examples you give are evidence of your wife's feminism, as much as her femdom kink. No problem with that, but feminism doesn't require, for example, men to wear women's clothes. In fact, in most cases, I suspect it would abjure that.

 

Well, as long as it works for you both, kudos.

 

I don't desire to submit to anyone but my Mistress and I think that if I were to be submissive to all females, it would devalue our personal D/s connection in both of our eyes.

 

I think Lester brings up an important point. Feminism has its' definition stretched and deformed often. Usually by those who want to fight against it. I am not claiming that is what is happening here but it hurts the cause to say that the things described here are any part of feminism. They are kink, and if that is what you both enjoy, then more power to you.

 

i am tooked to partys and i serve food and drinks there so i am very polite to Ladys and to men as well. i think it rude to not be polite really. to be devote you has to love and i love Mistress but not everbody.

 

Jemima does Mistress make you pleasure some of the men.

Must be very exciting.

 

It doesn't sound like you wife is a feminist...

One who is for the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the EQUALITY of the sexes.

This is not your wife.

 

Really?

 

sounds like a lovely life to me xx

 

Feminizacy / crossdressing is only specific fetish, it's absolutely not the rule for feminism, not for femdom, not for FLR...

There is also the opposite perception. If a man has a woman's dress, it's as insult and ridicule for women. A man in a woman's dress looks ridiculous, thus he as mocks a woman's dress and femininity.
The woman is a noble creature. Therefore a man should not have a right to have a woman's dress. Women's dresses are superior dresses. Exclusively for women.

 

This is in the male chastity forum and again it is about men becoming sissies ???????

 

@steph17 maybe this should be moved is there a Sissy part of sites?

 

There is a heading for
Crossdressing in all its variations further down on the main page. That might work.

 

It’s interesting to see that this post is getting some aggressive reactions... Actually, I even find it shocking ! Is it really un-feminist when one man is made to serve several women?

It’s fascinating to see how quickly Men are to « fight for equality » anytime they see a woman overpowering men, but the opposite never seems to be an issue at all.

How many parties and dinners have you been to where men are mostly seating on their thumbs and chatting while women are cooking, serving drinks, cleaning the tables. It is not always the case of course but it often is.
How many jobs have you been where secretary, assistants, hosts and so on, are all women?

How many men stand up to say that’s against equality ? They mostly don’t, because they don’t even notice it!

In the struggle for overall gender equality, some powerful strong minded women must rise to power, and at home men will serve them their drinks and listen to them taking without interrupting... and at work, men will serve them coffee, and deal with their paper work.

Uniform equality accross the board is a utopia just like Communism, that can only be enforced through despotic rules. Real social interactions are power struggles sometimes resulting in equality, and sometimes resulting in an imbalanced relationship where one has more power.

Most of us have been raised seeing all instances of power being held by men, especially in public, social and work settings.

If we are uncomfortable with the opposite setting, when a powerful women commands to several men, or when a more submissive man submits to several women, then WE ARE NOT feminist!
Equality is just a false and intellectually dishonest argument.

I am really surprised that a chastity forum, with an FLR section has such reactions.

It makes me wonder : why are men locked up in here, and/or in FLR, if they are uncomfortable with the idea of women being on top in public settings?

How do you justify submitting but only to your wife?
What attributes are other women lacking, that make them undeserving of your serving and submissive tendencies?

 

The main attributes that other women are lacking are:

(a) they're not my Mistress and therefore I don't love them in the way that I love her.
(b) they didn't consent to me submitting to them, so to force or project that onto them without their permission is something I would see as creepy (and so do most people- especially if it's something you get off on).

I treat everyone I meet with basic courtesy, kindness and respect. Part of that respect is taking into consideration what they may or may not want and trying not to make them feel uncomfortable.

 

Good point.

I was probably not clear about what kind of "submission" I’m talking about. What I had in mind was not sexual or kinky In any way, but socially acceptable behaviors, such as respectful manners, accrued listening, not interrupting like men so often do, and so on.

Looking back at the original post, i can see how it can seem a bit too kinky, and excessive in the submissive aspects for vanilla people.

What made me react is the idea that it would be wrong or inappropriate to use chastity and FLR to get men to show more respect to women as a whole and not just their own key holders.
I see so many men in real life, behaving poorly with women, driven by their BS male ego, and social norms that entitle them to interrupt, correct them for no real reason, talk louder, manslpain, and so on...
Sometimes it’s obvious douchebag, most of the time it’s just subtle undermining of women charisma, knowledge and so on.

My own journey through chastity and FLR has made me really aware of those gender imbalance, and it gave me the desire to often let women talk, explain, shine, and be wonderful

 

very well put, and I totally agree!

 

im use to be told to go somewhere else. it usual the kitchen.

 

#metoo!

 

Crossdressing is not nice for me and many men and women.

In FLR/femdom also exist marriages where a women gave for men strict ban to have female dress, female make up, female behavior, and any sissies...


One crossdressing forum is here, this is a forum for you and your wife:
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?forums/crossdressing-in-all-its-variations.9/

 

I am expected by my wife to submit to her mom with cheerful service, not sexual of course. And when my wife has her girlfriends over, I am expected to wait on them. However, I find none of this taxing. I am effeminate and have always bowed down to girls and women since I realized at the age of 12 that I wanted to be one.