Hi everyone After a long break my wife decided to lock me up for the duration of the pandemic. Weve been stuck at home for over 2 weeks and shes been very positive about my kinks.. Locking me up and letting me wear sexy undies every day. Shes letting me out to satisfy her but then edging me before locking me away. Now she wants to improve her 'manual' skills and has asked me to find some instructional videos or web sites that she can learn about ruining etc.. Does anyone have any recommendations? I remember a site a few years ago.. Mistress Taylor or something similar... But cant find it now. Any help would be very frustrating. . Xx
Carnt think of any specific sites, but I’m sure you will be able find some on info porn hub or the like, or you could try looking at some pro Dommes personal websites, they may have some tuition videos available.
If she is that open with communication, the two of you can work this out. Set up when you have privacy and some time. Oil for massages works well. She plays with it until you are about ready to cum, you warn her, she stops and waits. This is actually the fun part because not even I know if it will happen. A successful ruined or “bleeding” orgasm will have cum slowly run or bleed out without spurting moments after she stops contact (it can take up to 30 seconds later). If nothing comes out, she starts playing again until you feel you are close to the tipping point and warn her again. This whole process is very dependent on you communicating with her and stopping her before you get to that point. With us, I would have to stop her 3-8 times before it happened. It is mostly making sure I don’t go to far, one stoke too many and you pretty much just have an orgasm that isn’t finished. You get limp, you feel that “I just had an orgasm” feeling, and in general it spurts like an orgasm. My wife quit doing it, mostly I think because if it goes too far, she has me lose all that attentiveness and wasn’t worth the risk just to alleviate buildup.
The most important skill is her ability to read your sexual excitement and closeness to orgasm. That just takes time and experience. Miss A. has over 6 years managed to time the moment at which she "lets go" to absolute perfection, resulting in a full release of my "mess" with almost no pleasure other than in the build up.