Edge, Tease, and Denial

When i edge, it doesn't really feel like an orgasm. no relief, more frustration actually. Teasing also ramps up desires. Both produce that sort of angst over not being able to cum. So in long run, i think it helps my submissive desires.

 

My sub gets edged at least twice a day, in the morning and evening. It's to remind him of his place and to get those hormones active that make him want to serve. If I don't edge he becomes more passive because the hormones are less active. I keep him on edge at all times.

 

My hubby gets edged on an irregular basis.
I don't want a regular pattern to it as I feel that leads to expectation which if not met can lead to pressure on me and grumpiness on his part.
For him though it does give him some satisfaction but I think it's more about me letting him know that I've not forgotten him as opposed to sexual relief. He craves the attention and this is one way to give that at a time I choose.

 

Edging when done properly is amazing. Sorry, answer to the question is yes.

Thinking that you might get an orgasm is good and then when you discover its going to be an edging session, but you still may get an orgasm at the end. Being taken to the brink where you know the next contact with your penis is going to make you cum is so fun, almost bucking your hips trying to get some stimulation whilst Mistress watches on and laughs. A single "come hither" gesture of her forefinger or a single (pretend) lick of her tongue you know will cause these uncontrollable contractions of your muscles.

But then she stops and puts the cage back on, still horny and still desperate. I once suffered three days of being continually being taken to the edge. Ah the memories

 

I get edged frequently, we kiss, hug and snuggle. She sometimes play with my unlocked cock for an hour or so, but no orgasm. I look forward to those times.

 

I am taken to the edge multiple times a day. I have to have it all day long, and my wife is ok with that. She doesn't like my attitude after an orgasm, so she is done with orgasms for me.

 

When my holder and I discovered that I cannot manage to orgasm while in a restrictive cage, she tested this with every possible form of stimulation and all we could manage to do is reach the edge and stay there, for hours at a time.
We discovered with regular edging while locked, my eventual release if for orgasm produces a very powerful and meaningful orgasm. When sexually ignored, produces quite the opposite, a wimpy sad orgasm...
We enjoy the science of chastity play. This discovery and practice can be a lot of fun! For her, the fun comes when I'm released and think I'm going to get to enjoy an orgasm after regular edging/attention, then get denied and the clock starts over again OR after a boring session being suddenly forced to orgasm and it's just wimpy... I enjoy orgasms whenever I get to have them! Even if they are 'sad', they are still nice to experience! I'd favor a wimpy one, I guess comparable to a 'ruined' orgasm, than not at all.
My situation is different than those that don't have an active or curious holder, or the opposite where there's a spouse/partner involved and interested in playing frequently.. Mine is occasionally 'present' and the rest of the time she has a plan or idea, she shares, I go with it, with or without knowing what the intended outcome may be
Anyway, if there is a relationship involved (couple/marriage/etc) I feel that everything outside of the kink or chastity life needs to be healthy for chastity to mean anything. That said, if everything else is healthy, then the denial of sexual attention is just part of chastity. If there is an absence of emotional or physical attention, then 1-why be together and 2-the chastity doesn't mean anything... Just my feelings on the subject....
HOPEFULLY you will find what you are looking for and enjoy learning how your body works. Good luck!

 

My partner does some teasing at least once a day, which sometimes (more often than not) gets me so worked up and desperate to cum that I would call it edging. On top of that there are random sessions a few times per week which are absolutely edging - sometimes I am warned out about these in advance so the anticipation can be driving me nuts, and sometimes it is just - wham!.
Always remain caged throughout, but damn it seems like my attempts at an erection are going to tear the cage clean off my body.
Aside from the pain of the cage pulling at my balls, and the frustration of being left hanging so close, the mental effect of all this edging is exactly what she is after in our relationship - I become so devoted...

 

My madam will edge me if I have been good for her, otherwise it’s anal stimulation only for me.

 

My KH/Wife shares your approach: frequent edging to maintain the chemical wonder of chastity at its peak!
Hornyness is in direct proportion to submissiveness and willingness to serve.
Twice a week I'm sent to a Masseuse for two hours long teasing and edging sessions.
Although always denied,the Masseuse has gained such a knowledge of my body and reactions that counts each edge when she extracts a single droplet of precum each time,and from that point everything begins again,over and over.
The effect on me of this treatment is ,apart from enjoying the sweet torment,increased frustration and horniness!

 

Very helpful thread here. Thanks to all who contributed.

 

I think edging taken to the brink of orgasm but denied and locked up again and lots of teasing texts and comments is the fuel chaste subs need to run on. I think it drives deeper submission, attentiveness and closeness.

 

This is 100% true. Without a reasonable amount of teasing and denial, the cage just becomes an extension and no longer a motivation. Much like wearing a watch. You forget it's even there.

 

My wife always found edging a deal breaker and nearly turned her off from chastity. It was too much of process and we had a few releases where she and I both thought I was no where near shooting off and I did. The process of binding my wrists, getting off the cage, slowly stroking me to the edge, and then her failed attempts to get the cage back on was frustrating. She would get the ring caught and once on, end up pinching parts of my skin in the device. She ended up handing me the ice bag and the ring and watched me stumble getting it back on with numb fingers.

The solution we use is to meet at out hot tub and get in and cuddle. It might not be edging. but the tease and denial just rubbing and kissing make me hot and wild. I can lick her to orgasm and she gets to see me pushing against my bars with no release.

 

I think I'm a little jealous of your sub now.

 

An unlock is not required for edging. Vibrator to the cage until the breath rate picks up, and/or vibrate and/or manually tease the accessible skin. Accidents are much less likely, less prework, no wrangling a frustrated penis back into a cage.

 

Yes, Edging helps me to appreciate my Goddess’s body more my denial is her pleasure and my pleasure is in giving myself and control of the state of my emotions, erections, and orgasms are her choices.
She loves cock and ball play..

 

Awesome! It’s all about the Journey!

 

Great Story!! Thanks for sharing… It’s all about the Journey!

 

Edging is hit or miss. It can definitely be rewarding and a bit of a relief from the agonizing yearning of extended "lockdown" but it can also ramp up the arousal even after edging and increase the frustration to straight up desperation.

There is nothing like being edged with promise of orgasm only to be force back into lockdown without cumming. That's as trip.

 

Just curious... Would you count watching porn while locked up to the point of really wanting to jerk off as "edging" or would you just see it as "self-teasing"?