Does my cage fit?

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    Noob here. Currently, on my second cage, which I bought off amazon and am now on day five of being locked up. My first cage was a silicone nightmare that cut into me on day two and never wore again. This one fits me so much better. However, I don't know if it's as good as it could be. When flaccid, this cage sits nice and comfy on me. However, when erect, I swear my balls turn blue sometimes. At the very least they turn dark and swell up, with the main ring pulling on them painfully. Unfortunately, my phone isn't good at capturing this. I need to ask, is this normal? Or do I need to find something that fits me better?
    For a visual reference, I have pictures of me in my cage both flaccid and hard. 1a.jpg 1b.jpg 2a.jpg 2b.jpg
     
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    Looks pretty normal to me. But when flaccid you seem to have a fair bit of room in there. With a tighter fitting cage you erection should be more restrained, which might put less stress on your testicles.
     
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    Thanks for the response! Glad to know I'm just being paranoid. But especially when it comes to this, I'd rather be paranoid and wrong then ignore a problem. Will definitely consider a smaller cage.
     
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    The major thing i learned is comfort is not something to be ignored. You can always adjust the restraint but the goal is to feel good not to be in pain. If it keeps you restrained and your comfortable then it is a win :D
     
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    You shouldn't n be in excessive pain but when I first started their was short period of adjustment.

    My skin had to stretch a little and has hardened up slightly.

    I use Vaseline aloe intensive care moisturising cream to keep the skin soft and hydrated.

    Also check regularly for damage or sores around the area and let things heal fully before trying again if necessary.

    A lot of us had to build up slowly to be able to go longer periods in a device.

    Blue balls I get a lot but for me I know its due to being denied my release rather than a cage issue. It happens with or without a cage if I am denied.
     
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    Looks normal to me. You can pull the excess skin through to bring the cage up more. I started at the very beginning before I didn’t have night erections of tying string to the cage and keeping it tight to body while sleeping . It really helped out to get sleep and control body to get rid of those.
     
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    I’m going to be a little contrary here and suggest that you could maybe go with a smaller diameter cage. The third picture, from the side while flaccid, clearly shows some space between your skin and the bars of the cage. Even when erect, it looks like due to the construction of your cage, the bars aren’t doing much to constrain your girth.

    I think a snugger cage would help nip your erections in the bud and possibly reduce the pushing out behind your base ring.
     
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    Yes. I agree with the thoughts above. You don’t need space inside the cage when flaccid. Make it a snug fit. You want to feel held nicely when flaccid, and gripped firmly (relentlessly) when trying to broaden out to get hard.

    I sleep better in snug chastity too. Nocturnal erections don’t get so large that they wake me.

    (Personally I just stepped down 1/16” inch in my MaleChastityNow device and it’s amazingly perfect to be between 1/8” increments)
     
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    Smaller cage = better sleep
     
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    That looks normal to me. When I’m erect, my balls will sometimes get purplish, but it’s totally normal. It would be a bad fit if they were purple or dark when flaccid. Yours look fine. And as for the pain mentioned, some pain is fine, especially if only felt when erect. After all, it’s chastity, and it should be expected to be uncomfortable and even slightly painful sometimes.
     
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    I second the idea of tying a string to the cage, and around your waist, to keep snug to the body.
     
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    Agree here looks normal to me, and blue balls is to be expected, as long as they go back to a normal colour then it’s fine.
     
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    needs to be smaller
     
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    Tighten that cage up. I just stepped down from 1 1/4 to 1 1/8. Had a much better night's sleep
     
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    I was and still am having the same issues. I have gaps on either side while flaccid in my Jailbird. After discussing with Mistress MM, she advised my cage diameter is too large.

    I experience friction burns with any erections.
     
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