i thought some of you may find this interested. May be a good way to introduce vanilla ladies toward this life style. http://devotionalsex.com/
I think any set of techniques that put the woman first are a great step in the right direction. Teaching men that we should please women first and enjoy giving her pleasure as a means of (no orgasmic) pleasure is very important IMHO. Men need to learn that just because we can orgasm quickly doesn’t me we should. In fact, I really think if more men learned the joy of bringing a woman to multiple orgasms before they even have one we’d see a lot of great changes in society. I agree this is a good way to introduce the mindset to “vanillas”.
It and https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865 have been around a while and I have long advocated the reading of them. I do though offer this warning .... Knowing how and why some things work in some way can diminish some things for some people. With that in mind not everyone ought to read these articles. However if you are not liable to be adversely affected I extol the virtues of reading both articles. Through reading these amongst other things I do understand why my preference is not to return to short term denial when longer term denial is an option that can suit both my partner and I.
Even at 18 I made sure my Wife came before I got mine, I guess all that jerking off as a teen did serve a purpose lol! Of course now my Wife is training me to have a quick trigger once she is done, she wants to get me down to less than two minutes. It really kills any pride I had in being a good lover, but my desire to make her happy is far more important
Reuiniting.info no longer seems to be around. However, I found the article archived on the Internet Wayback Machine: https://web.archive.org/web/20190421140350/https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865 However, that forum post mainly citing a blog post that can still be found here: http://secretchastityhusband.blogsp...leasure-and-devotion.html?zx=37745a0c573460bf