Hello. Older guy here. Devoted to Sheila. That devotion has slowly emerged over time. I remain chaste for her. We don't normally use any devices. We engage in intimacy as we always have. It is always up to her if and when I get a release. Sometimes she will keep me in "suspension" (that's her word for it) for weeks, or even a few times for months. Our sexual activity is just about anything the human imagination can invent. As an older couple intercourse is much less frequent than it was in the early days, but still happens. I only have an orgasm when she allows it after I ask. She doesn't permit it often, which keeps me in a state of suspense.That suspense makes me very attentive to her. She likes it that way. And so do I. Thanks for reading my into. I hope to learn much here from others. ...devotedone