We had the talk last night I knew was coming. She's no longer interested in piv or anything considered traditional sex except on rare occasions in her words. She's starting menopause and never had a high sex drive so not a surprise. Still weird hearing her say it making it real. She does still desire in her words the things we do now and has assured me that won't change. I told her I'm fine with this and was supportive. Just that my concern she'd lose interest in everything. She pretty convincingly said I love the things we do now just don't expect to ever go back to how things were or getting off on a regular basis. Could be worse alot of people are stuck in sexless marriage. At least in my case I still get attention and she gets pampered. Seems like a practical along with fun solution to it all.
It's great you guys can have that conversation. Yes, it's hard to hear for sure but, you're both the same people. PIV sex was removed from our sex life as well. Being a sub, sissy, slave I think had a lot to do with her decision. She trained me to have my release using a vibrator she controlled. My wife loves her Wand and so do I. I could never deliver 2-3 orgasms she enjoys with it. I highly recommend the Wand for the both of you!
She don't care much for orgasms and was never hyper sexual. She's more foot rubs, ice cream cones, clean house and using toys on me. I am glad we were able to have an open honest conversation regardless.