College couple relatively new to chastity looking for kinky ideas!!!

I think you should go out without telling him where you have been, stay out all weekend, mess your hair up, put your knickers in your hand bag, smudge your lipstick and masturbate for an hour until you are looking a bit flushed downstairs, then when you get in slur your words and tell him a wild story about how you've just been given a right good seeing to by an old boyfriend or something. Meanwhile tie him to the bed and put slices of cucumber on your delicate lady parts tell him it's an old recipe to cool things down and then make him eat them.

 

By the way, that's not serious, I'm just trying to out do all the other suggestions. I would be horrified if my Wife ever did that.

 

Sorry, I'm in a bit of a funny mood. My insides feel like they are fizzing and I think it has affected my brain!

 

Put a clothe pin on him every time he tells you what to do. I assume he is tied up or he is instructed to not remove them. Move to more sensitive areas as needed.

Stop teasing him and leave him for a while. I'm usually tied up. When left I'm hooded and have music playing in my ears. It is isolating. After an hour of that I would really want M to come back so if she left me for 75 minutes I would be sorry.

Either of those and I would soon learn to be careful about telling M what to do. Other little things might work for you. Something he don't like.

Since this is still in-scene and still something that is somewhat erotic for me I could be tempted to mis-behave to provoke some punishment. Now, that could either be treated as all in fun. Or M could keep escalating the punishment until I decide I am going to stop mis-behaving.

 

So explain him the rules: He is to be locked for 2 weeks. And each time he begs and asks to be let out, or even ask when you will let him out, will ad 3 days to his time locked.

 

Hi there it seems you have a great start. My wife insisted on a minimum of three months locked to kick things off and get men the right frame of mind it does work and it proves it can be done so you could really extend his time. Sometimes I have to use a vibe on Miss whilst locked up this is really frustrating for me as I know she rarely feels in the mood so it's a lost session for me.

I am with you on the cuckolding it's a great turn on but Miss is not interested so it's not for us and it's not up for discussion.

One of the things Miss is uncomfortable with is inflicting corporal punishment so if I earn that then I have to have an appointment with a Pro Domme and Miss tells her the offence and I am punished when this happens I am caged at least w eek before and a week post the punishment. I am always caged during sessions they are for punishment not pleasure I can tell you the cane properly used will adjust any poor attitude or misbehaviour. I will do almost anything to avoid it after only a few sessions.

Well just a couple of suggestions from our world.

All the best

Oh by the way I got Miss a small safe to keep the keys in I have no access so it means the key is only released when she wants it released to me. The delay caused by this process has stopped her weakening but then I am simply not allowed to ask or it's off for a very sore bum.

 

Make him wear a strap on dildo to fuck you with, while he's still locked of course.
For chastity durations. How about simply rolling a dice, one spot =1 week. Introduce a second dice at some point later in his duration development.