New to the chastity world as you all probably now know, my boyfriend is into locking himself up, and he kept it from me until I moved in I found a device maybe once every 6 months and realized it was a part of him - So.... now I've joined in! Sex has been great. He said he wears it because he likes to be "controlled" and it turns him on. Question is: could this have stemmed from some kind of sexual abuse ? He doesn't know when wearing a chastity belt started , and since it's not something we are born with as humans- I'm just curious as to where it began. Also- do you guys leave your chastity belt at home when you are around your family / children ? Thanks for taking the time to read!