Hello to all. Just joined CM. My husband introduced chastity into the relationship a while ago. I am trying to be more confident as the Key Holder. Appreciate any advice on expanding on this FLR. Thank you.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I saw a thread in Novices and Newbies by Beautiful and her footman that might help. It's called My Transition from being a vanilla wife to Keyholder. You might want to read that. I hope that helps.
@ENCCOUPLE Welcome to the Mansion. I'm sure you will receive many tips regarding your question but don't rush into anything just because hubby wants it. Take it at your pace. Most of it comes naturally anyway.
@ENCCOUPLE so great to see another strong woman on here. Ask away, anything you want. You're in great company.
confidence is a excellent goal that will win the day more often than you may know. practice builds confidence. enjoy the journey.
We have found that the whole key holding thing has evolved in its own way. Mrs Chaste was introduced to it by me but she soon started to enjoy it in her own way (especially the oral part which she has always enjoyed). Now she says she wouldn't want me uncaged. Even when it is removed for things like doctors appointments I am expected to put it back on as soon as we are home, if I don't do so then I'm ordered to re-lock. There is no rush or a right way to go about key holding, you will hopefully feel your confidence grow and evolve in your own way. We are now at the point where I have no say at all about being locked up and I love it, more importantly so does Mrs Chaste after all as she reminds me now "sex is all about me not you" with a smile!
Not an original line, but the only rule is there are no rules. Do whatever you are comfortable with. As things progress your comfort level will probably increase. Actually, there is one rule ... “you” means the key holder/s. Jane & Janet XX
Warmest welcome to you @ENCCOUPLE, we hope you find you what you are looking for in here. Thank you @Mistress Luscinia, we appreciate the compliment. https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...from-being-a-vanilla-wife-to-keyholder.25780/ -B & f
Best wishes on your journey on chastising your other half. Be welcome in a place where you will find the best on chastity.