Brief and to the point.

I’d been looking at chastity porn, power exchange stories, chastity stories, etc for years. I had fantasized about being locked up, denied, and teased for all that time. This went on for a long time. Then I met the woman I’d marry. She was pretty reserved and vanilla when we got married. Over time she loosened up, expanded her sexual horizons. A year ago I bought a CB6000 knock-off and tried it out for hours or, if she was out of town, a day or two at a time. It didn’t fit well. I modified the base ring and shaped some of the other edges to make it more comfortable, but it wasn’t great. One day I showed it to her and suggested I wear it. She really didn’t like it, she thought it was ugly, tt was hard to stay clean, she didn’t understand why, etc. I put it away. A few months later I bought a metal cage and tried it on. Huzzah! It actually was pretty comfortable. It was easy to stay clean and fresh! I wore it during the day for a bunch of days and when she or I was out of town I wore it for a few days at a time. It seemed to be wearable pretty much 24/7. One night I put it on and showed it to her. She was still skeptical but I explained that I couldn’t take it off without a key and I’d only take it off when she said. She was leery but said “Ok”. Whee! Inside I was all atwitter. That night she had me take it off for a couple of hours of sex. When I suggested I put it back on, she said “Not now”. So I didn’t. But the next day I did. I would occasionally hint at the control she’d have over me if I wore it at her bidding. I started writing a document that outlined a Chastity Lifestyle Relationship that I envisioned would please her and me.


A few days ago, I gave her a hug when she came home. She felt the bump from the cage press against her and raised her eyebrows. I said “Yep”. Then she noticed I hadn’t gotten the fruit prepared for her before she came home from work. She said “You have to stay locked for two days.” That was unexpected, I didn’t know whether to squeal for joy or shrink in fear. So I kept it on for two days. The second day she said she was going to bed and I should join her and she’d unlock me. YAY! I was writing furiously on the document. I only delayed going to the bedroom for about 25 minutes. By the time I got there she was asleep. Damn! I eventually went to sleep too. The next day was hectic and we were both tired. But, the fourth day of my lockup she had me remove the cage and we had some glorious sex. After, I showed gave her the Chastity Lifestyle Relationship document I had written, all 5 pages. She read through it, giggling occasionally, asking for clarification about abbreviations, and wording. I answered all her questions and waited until she finished. She put it down and said “Ok”. I asked “Ok?” She said “Yeah but I have to think on it a bit.”. “You mean in case you want to change/delete/add anything?” She said “Yes”. She said “What if this doesn’t work out?” I told her we’re both intelligent adults and would either make changes or we could drop it. She seemed fine with that. She then said to put the cage back on and I wouldn’t get let out for a week. (eek!)


So here I am two days later, still locked up. I did get out for 10 minutes today to shave. Hairs catching in the cage aren’t pleasant. I’ll ask her later if she’s thought of any changes to make to CLR.



The CLR

It outlines what’s expected of me, what’s expected of her, what the benefits to her are, things that I think should be off-limits (surprisingly few), etc. It basically outlines a FLR/M arrangement between her and I giving her lots of control in our relationship and control over me physically, sexually, and the running of our lives in general. To me this just seemed like a natural evolution in our relationship. She’s had control over the major finances for a long time. I don’t have whatever it takes to deal with stocks, investments, our rental properties, etc.

 

She's still thinking about all of what she wants in the long term from a more formal FLR.

Some of what she's already decided:
She doesn't want me to raise my voice.
I defer to her decisions. (There are some things I decide and will remain in my authority. Generally not stuff about her. The house, cars, geek stuff, and other fields where I have more knowledge than she has.)
She takes financial care of us and provides a very comfortable lifestyle.
She handles the major financial decisions.
She decides on most vacation plans except for my part when we have separate vacations (generally once a year).
We'll see...