Last week was my 63rd birthday. My Wife (KH) told me she had a day planned for me. That morning, she rolled over in bed and started teasing me by rubbing my cage and moving to my balls. She knows that drives me crazy. She then slide down and started to kiss and suck on my balls. She then tells me she will allow me to go "cage free" for the day, but I can't touch my penis, at all. Only she can. The rest of the day, she would tease me, get me hard, then let me go soft again. I don't even know how many times that happened. Later in the day, she tied me up to our bed, and teased me for what seem to be for ever. Brought me to the edge many times, but never allowed me to have a orgasm. I haven't had a orgasm in over 17 months, and she knows it. She then tells me I can have a orgasm or be locked up again without. I really don't want to start at zero again, so I say, "lock me back up". Sounds crazy, but that's how I feel now. She told me, I may never have another orgasm again. I'll have to live with that... I'm not sure if she will let me cum or not... And I never did touch my own penis all day, which is hard to believe...
My 50th birthday is very close to the end of our first long time lock up and denial period of 90 days. I'm nearly 60 days since I last had an orgasm. Your decision does resonate with me, and I can see the attraction of your choice. I might do something similar if given options like yours in 40ish days time. Somehow the denial becomes a bigger deal than the very brief ecstasy of an orgasm. I may think differently at the 90 day point.
Happy belated birthday. Gee, I remember what my birthday meant and what I got as a present! LOL Have not had a BJ in about 11-12 years now. My wife, the smart ass, always makes sure I'm wearing my cage on my birthday so she can say she can't give me a BJ with a cage on and laugh. I do keep wishing year after year!
My birthday is coming up in February. Last year on my birthday I got a handjob to completion and was very thankful for that, it was the only assisted JO I received all year and was allowed no PIV per our ongoing agreement. This year I would like to get a cage that fits well enough to wear when at home at least to start. She does not currently have strong feelings one way or the other but I am hoping she will recognize the benefits soon after committing.
Wonderful torment; thanks for sharing. I don’t get orgasms for my birthday either, unless it’s from the strapon fucking I so eagerly take on my day. The thing I most reliably get for my birthday nowadays is new panties.