Being in chastity around your close family

I hope you don’t mind me asking, but what was you friends reaction? Did thy work out what it was or?

 

No, we didn't discuss it, and he didn't seem to react at the time, but it was a noticeable thing. I'm not interested in exposing people to any of my kinks who are not inclined that way.

 

My Wife sometimes stands in front of me and pushes her bottom up against me, such as when we are shopping or visiting friends. It just looks like she is standing close to me, letting me put my arms around her. We however know what she is actually doing. I asked her once, can you feel my device? Oh yes dear, she said, absolutely. Why do you think I do it?

 

wearing it for 20 years
no problem with the son (what is in bedroom rests in bedroom)
i've just to take care when bathing in family's or public swimming pool : a little swimsuit and a boxer swimsuit over it.

 

My wife has a day-counter on her mobile phone, and she takes great pleasure in showing me the screen with the counter icon on, right under someone else's nose. Of course the other person has no idea what the numbered icon means even if they looked closely at it, but the two of us know! My wife must also like being reminded herself of how long I'm locked up, because I noticed that she's put the icon on her 'home' screen!

 

I must admit that the very first time I was locked up around family and friends was nerve-wracking. I almost chickened out on going through with it but I made it through. It got easier with each experience upon realizing (albeit slowly) that the chastity device is discrete enough to be unnoticeable, and that, in reality, only my Mistress and I knew about it.

 

If it's not obvious, no one will notice it. We tend to think it's more obvious then it is. I have a 2 1/2 year old boy. I don't let him see me in chastiy

 

I try to be careful with any lap sitting. At the pool or beach I wear a swimmers jock over my cage. It flattens me out to where there's no bump down there. Plus it holds everything nice and snug. Just the way my wife likes it.

 

When your committed to being Locked long term this is one of the issues you need to deal with. What are you going to do take it off than put it back on 10 Times a day?
We have to get it out of our minds that everyone is looking at us and can tell, unless you have a cage that is Way to big it will go undetected for many years. What’s behind your dress pants can always remain a secret to others untill your ready to drop your pants in public and show everyone, and that’s probably not going to happen any day soon.
I’ve been locked for over 9 years and the only people that know are the ones that my Lovely Wife wants to know. It is her property after all

 

great answer Mash

 

Only one in family that knows Im caged is my wife and her sister. Ive been made many times to show my sisterNLaw my caged cock by my wife n they both tease me to ruined orgasms! They think its hilarious. No one else knows n isnt really a problem.

 

I like to keep things simple.

 

If you have a lock that clanks Everytime you move or breath it would bother me. If the cage doesn't have that type of lock or you have it secured so it doesn't make noise like I would do then it doesn't matter at all.

 

It's for me and the person holding my release, nobody else. My cage is discrete, and very hard to see under normal clothing. With a baggy shirt, it's not visible at all. I can be around friends, family, and co-workers and they have no idea.

 

What's our business is our business alone. We don't need to include anyone else in our kink. There's no reason why anyone should know what's going on, particularly family. We might want to include others in what we do, but we should think about that very carefully.

 

I’ve never felt any different wearing it around family than any other time. It took a little getting used to when doing certain tasks, ie, working on the car with my father. But that was more just a little worried about snagging it than anything else.

My mother-in-law already knows I’m only allowed to wear thongs, so it wouldn’t be surprising to me if she ends up knowing I’m caged.