My wife and I have been discussing the fact that I would like to change our relationship toward a FLR/LFA relationship. We have been married 16 years and over those years my wife has been willing to explore different aspects of the D/s Lifestyles with me. We have never found anything that really "clicked" with us other than the fact that I have always been interested in chastity and the idea of her having Authority over me. Last month I came across the Female Led Relationship page (Around Her Finger) and soon found that this relationship was the thing I was needing and believe that it would only bring my wife and I closer together. After talking with her a little she was open to the idea and the term Loving Female Authority also was not frightening to her. We discussed quite a few times the ideas I had and that the fact I wanted to bring chastity back into our relationship as part of the Authority. I was to pick a device (have tried so many it isn't funny) and make sure it works before giving up the keys. I have found the PA-5000 to work best for me and in the chastity forum I had discussed my findings there. As of last Thursday I began my "dry run" on the 5000 starting late Thursday night to wear it over night and see how things go. Things went so well with it I kept it on, and continued to keep it on. Last night I ran my loving wife a bath, gave her a wonderful massage and wished her, once again, a happy mothers day. At that point I gave the keys over to her and had let her know earlier that I had been testing the device for a few days. I was surprised (good and bad. I asked for it) that she took the keys with a smile and a kiss then said, "I was thinking of letting you out for some fun then putting you back in but I am really tired tonight so would like to go to bed" and off we went to sleep. Everything I have been searching for and needing in my life came clear. She now is my loving wife but also my Keyholder and my Authority. I have a list of chores I am responsible for now that I did not do before and I look forward to pleasing her every day more than ever. I plan to keep updates so that I might learn from others here. Kept.