After my wife/KH decided she didnt want to play anymore because I was manipulation my way out of the cage anytime I wanted. She felt like she was never in total control of my chastity, and stopped playing. After a 3 month break and me hinting around to try playing again, I surprised here by self locking back up this morning. And to my surprise she took the key! Im wondering what I might have got myself back into now? Hope we can get back to where we were 3 months ago. How many of you have stop playing suddenly? And did it take awhile to get back into the swing of things
When my wife and I first started, I felt like it was all me and I was “locked and mostly forgot” so I simply quit. She didn’t notice for 2-3 days, which I thought proved my point, unfortunately she was still trying to figure it out and she took it very personally. She thought she had let me down and messed up. After multiple apologies by me and me trying to do things for her around the house, it still took her over a month to be willing try again. We’ve still had some bumps since then but Ive done much better at letting her set the pace. I’m still learning and need correction now and again, but we’ve have passed the point where chastity is optional for me. It’s now a requirement and she says she will never go back. Patience, patience, patience.
Madam would suspend things if I was trying to top from the bottom, all kink and kink related talk and such would just cease, I wouldn’t be unlocked, there would just be no mention of it, and if I bought it up madam would just offer my key back to me, I would never take it. Then I would have to wait until my madam thought I had suffered enough. So my advice is stick to it, and follow her every word!