Hello all I have been in chastity about 1 and half year with on and off(real life situation) For the start of the year she seem not interested and she dont want my genital to be locked.. Also if im locked up she just look it and say open up..let me use it.. So no duration lock..orgasm all the way After a year my wife seems more demanding me to lock up my genital..she often angry if i didnt lock it My orgasme only once a month or once a week... Sex only for ruined orgasm then she always shouted to lock up again... And she often say..if this key lost...will be ur permanent chastity??... Did she level up?...i wonder she is still vanila wife i know
Chastity between a couple can be a rush from the start or take a while to grow into. It can also be about no contact with your bits at all, or 'while locked' or something that works for you both... For some/perhaps many, it's about her controlling your sex. When she wants to use your penis for her pleasure, it gets unlocked, then, when she's done, it gets locked back up again. If she's into 'this', then she can feel good about 'knowing' any pleasure you receive is going to be with/from her. Whatever form of or extent/limitation of that pleasure is, well, that's up to her and should be felt/viewed by you as a gift. I'm assuming that the chastity 'thing' was at first your idea? Whatever the evolution of things, she has found a way to play along with what was your thing. Enjoy it, regardless of her reasons or how she manages your bits.
Yes it takes a year to convince her the benefit of the chastity...she finnally realized after i gafe her all of the benefit No masturbation(cheating her) She got all my attention She can demand more oral sex while im still locked My penis got all erect when she opened Etc Yes it was my idea...and i dont know if its going to be fun or frustating but what all she doing i will thankfull for her...
Off course its fun..haha..sorry typo.. not fun when after get orgasm..then she nagging to be locked again..
My wife's "levelup" at the time looked like this: Me: "Honey, can we unlock and clean?" She: "Sure we can do that" Me: "Handcuffs?" She: "Quiet and put them behind your back". No sooner said than done. Then I was cleaned, shaved and locked up again. - It's been like that ever since! So yeah, seems like your wife is heading for her "level up".