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    What will be in the schedule?
    14 orgasms for the remaining seven and a half months.
    12 orgasms in 2024
    9 orgasms in 2025
    the hundredth orgasms from now will happen on 24th of August 2039
    3 orgasms per year when we get retired.

    Does this have have potential for the Guiness Book of Records?
    Too crazy?
     
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    My full orgasms have been continuously reduced. Less than 6 now. There is talk about me being orgasm free for a year. And then only ruined orgasms. After I have a full orgasm My mood is very grumpy and not attentive
     
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    Yeah - for me these are two different things (and everyone here is different)

    I completely understand his point about passion & creativity - and have enjoyed reading vicariously - but that's not the same as significant orgasm reduction / tapering that you list in the next post.

    At the moment he's getting 'a lot' of sex (plus some denial) so would understandably be enthusiastic. I am locked a lot, but also 'let out' a lot too - I'd not want to hugely reduce my orgasms to this extent.

    As a number person you might like Toms matrix blog on these ratios:

    https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2019/12/04/the-chastity-denial-matrix/
     
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    Didn't knew about this matrix yet.
    X migth be 7 to 8
    Y is more difficult. Where to put rare but assured orgasms?
     
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    The insurance manager applied to chastity matrix
     
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    :)
     
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    All joking aside, I think it is good to let go.

    Yesterday's fuck was liberating and unplanned. But I think necessary to make this game a complicit lifestyle and not an Olympic endurance competition.

    Then, at the end of the year, we take the numbers to see where the journey has taken us
     
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    You are absolutely right.
    It's raining outside, so there will be talking time for us.
     
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    Still rainy and cold. We will hide under blankets, today without toys, Just us.
     
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    We have had some wonderful time in bed. Without toys, without a penis but with much intimacy. We can't keep our hands off each other.
    We talked a lot about MC and my strange schedule. We both are on go for that. He said, he does not understand completely what is happening in his body, but it does not harm him. He is curious about getting to know his body in the new detail of chastity.
    He said, he starts to get addicted of me having orgasms. He never tought, that I cold be so full of lust and sexually demanding.

    We don't want to use our communications ritual but talk if needed. He does not want to beg and I don't want to punish. We are not into FLR, both on eye level. We always want to communicate, we are experienced in that.

    He doesn't want me to pamper him to submit. He has a high sex drive as well and mine seems strongly increased from physical and psychological changes, piercing and keyholder. So, we want to live our sexuality but with less penis involvement but penis envolvement on some regular basis, which we both are looking forward.

    Hygiene seems not to be a big issue. In our current arrangement weekly cleaning lock offs are sufficient. Our current device is sufficient for now. We did not decide about anything else.

    Let's have some further evenings in bed to adjust for things to come. All fine for us.
     
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    Next week there will be an extended weekend, Feast of the Ascension (took this from wikipedia, hope for right translation)
    Mid of May is usually the begin of bathing season. But this year we expect snow in the Alps.
    I am not a fan of that.
     
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    We will visit my sister and her boyfriend tomorrow, since our train ticket is valid for the whole month anyway. Some chastity talk.
     
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    Around ten degrees Celsius outside and the heating is shut off. We will hide under blanket and make the best out of it:love::lockkey::)
     
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    We don't need to freeze. It's hot in our marital bed.:)
    I had him wear the Mustang strapon but didn't asked about being done with it (maybe him? Since Sal impersonates toys, shall I do as well?) I stroked the Mustang, maybe he impersonates with this faux as part of him. They feel really realistic, I am glad that I choosed a non skin color.

    Since I read that in many posts, I took his nipples into focus, which hasn't been in my focus before. He seems to respond to this. Our Gemini did not even roll on him yet. I bet, I could scare him like hell mentioning nipple piercings.
    I just recognize there is a whole toy circus around us and I am using their names. I didn't baptise them, I adopted them, keeping their names.

    I guess all parts of our bodies got attention except his locked penis and my pussy, she just got touched sometimes en passant. When he approached her, I gently diverted him. Not a single orgasm but much intimacy. This evening is us-time. Every morning before leaving the bed, there is me-time and there will be many shades in between.
    Not having an orgasm but intimacy, might help him in his development, or us in our development.
     
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    I commend your restraint!
     
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    Excactly seven weeks ago I registered here and now it it my thousandth post.
     
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    Weather outside is ridicioulusly bad.
    We are on the train now. No sex on the train this time, I don't want him to develop a fetish for trains.:)
     
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    I have been trained to only be able to cum when I have nipple clamps on. Male nipples are very sensitive.
     
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    They can be, especially if you wear nipple clamps often to keep them in a very sensitive state! :)
     
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    Impressive, but I am a bit afraid, this might be a possibility for masturbation.
     
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    We are back on the train heading home.
    It was a wonderful day the four of us talking about our chastity.
    They told that they got his long lasting custom cage, a Steelworx Looker made of titanium. No, we didn't showed the caged cocks (yet).
    Since I knew about the long delivery time, I asked about it. And he delivered us some details, we didn't know yet, but he told my sister, when she lockked him for a month, end of March.
    As a soldier he has been in Afghanistan, Irak, Mali and at the Russian border for over twenty month during the last seven years. He did not masturbate a single time during that. He just did not want that in a war zone. But at home he lost slef control and did it up to a dozen times per day. He wanted to control this with chastity and did that in the beginning of their relationship, when they were not together. It took him some time to open to her. Now it is an integral part of their relationship. He already ordered the cage end of last year.
    My sister told, that none of his previous cage would move to their new house. They all got deeply cleaned, maybe we want to try them or just dispose them. I took the bag, arund two dozens of different cages. Mayne we will thes them.
    They will get the keys for the house a few days earlier and we will support the moving in two weeks.
    And finally my sister had a wish, that needs to be confirmed by all four of us. The will be a house rule for us in their home, chaste boy have to be naked. Agreed to it, under the condition of suitable temperatures.
     
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    Maybe you want to guess which common device I will test on him first.
     
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    So, he fell asleep already, after giving me a good performance. We tried a device on him and I wanted to feel the Mustang. But it is cold, we hide under blankets, so no cowgirl position, but spooning and missionary has been good. I told him, that I love him for doing so. He told me, he loves me for playing it an a way, he feels save about it for us.

    What a huge number of devices he collected during his process, all the usual suspects, knockoffs and cheep devices. I am still wondering that we (he) are quite comfortable with the third device found quite at the beginning. The titanium Looker is even cheaper than all this devices in sum.

    I hope, all this devices can help us to find the correct dimensions to find a permanent device for him. On our train tour back home I showed my husband what a Looker is and he got quite uncomfortable about the urethal tube. We tried some small silicone sounds and it was absolutely not his thing. But some reports of users sound enthousiastically and valid for long term.

    I told him, that I got an idea of a long term solution for him and it might become a Christmas present. Durations that we are still unfamiliar about.

    Has really been some nice converations witth them. Since they started some months earlier than we did. he seems to love her to a certain amout that she openly goes in the lead and gives him, what he is craving for, chastity and command. And she is enjoying that position as well. She did exactly what she told me about. She adjusted him to her cycle. He was very caring to help her through PMS in the last days and she plans to have sex with him during the next days, she said that openly. He knows, that he is on her cycle. Maybe the two sisters are playing MC in a very individual way. It's our way.

    So, what about the least experienced, my husband? Sister and boyfriend did not ask specifically, just how we are proceeding. We are going fine, still learning.

    For all of us it is clear, that we don't want to end in a foursome but are not prudish as well. We told them about my intention of adding a day each time. In around a year we will be at the same duration, if we all keep playing it that way.

    We all value, that we found individual ways and do not get into some kind of competiton. It feels quite comfortable for all of us to communicate so openly about it. We reconsidered our agreement and which communication setups are agreed on. Besides the individual couples or all four of us, our current rules allow, that the boys talk individually and the girls are forbidden to talk individually.

    It is still some interesting dynamic, boyfriend wanted it, sister agreed to it, I got introduced to it and my husband has to deal with it.
     
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    You may still guess about the device he is wearing (currently sleeping in).
     
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