An open door

Maybe I am the model student here. I try to absorb all information I can find here. I am especially thankful for all the answers and hints given to me here.

I read from many people here that the road to chastity is beset with many difficulties. Often I read about male resistance, failures, punishment, locked into the cellar and forced into a new episode. In the end with consent, I understood.

I want to try a different approach. I am not mad about my husband, I am fine with his previous masturbation. I am becoming addictive to be in charge, to guide him. I want to extend the chastity periods just by one day each time and give him few reason to complain. I won't introduce him to the schedule. In the best case he will not complain at all. That will be my ultimate goal. Having much communications, express the wild lust that the power exchange provides to me and give him occasional rewards for behaving well and communicating that I will reward him. Another topic is to find ways to minimize sub drop. I want him to accept this game / lifestyle as the best for both of us.

Might become a huge experiment. I already got a PHD, otherwise, this study could become my masterpiece. Do I get above myself or can I make my dream true, I didn't knew about ten weeks ago?

My slow approach will lead to two weeks lockup for end of June and about a month lockup in a year.
Do get it to the extreme,in ten jears this would go down to an orgasm every three month in ten years and down to an orgasm in every six month, when we will get retired around the year of 2050.

I know, this sounds ridiculous now but as a vision it seems bigger than to colonise the Mars.

What do you think about it?
I love you all in advance.

 

Following my idea, that would happen in ten years.
I assume, that would be very individual, than general.

 

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/an-open-door.50392/page-19#post-610111

 

We are at the same wave length, some kind of resonation.

 

resonance

 

@NowIveDoneIt: Is there a place to getting to know about your way / encounter / development / lifestyle?

 

Please don't feel misjudged.

 

Dificult to find an appropriate answer, experiencing your well thought posts.

 

Keep reaching for the goal.

 

We started breakfast with him eating my, like every morning. He is always hard in his cage when doing so.

 

Wings for life run will start at 13:00 local time, UTC+2. Never understood whether this will be 13 am or 1 pm, I am sorry about that.
But enough time to fuck each other repeatedly for the next hours, without a penis involved.

 

Sun shines intensely, we are at the balcony, working on our tan lines. I grabbed his balls and told him that the tube will come off, when he comes home. We will have sex but he is forbidden to come. And sometimes in the evening I will tell him to lock up and I want him to do that immediately and without complaining.

 

Most probably

 

Has been an active day, I made 12 km and he did the half-marathon before the catcher car got us. There were busses returning us back to the Olymiastadion I got my medal and went to the subway. I returned home and prepared something for cooking later together. He returned an hour later. I kissed him and took his hand and we went to the balcony. We got naked and I unlocked him. Okay honey, let's enjoy our sweaty bodies, get down and lick me. A while later I told him, that he may start to fuck me but cumming is strictly forbidden. I told him to count down and at „two“, get out of me and continue to lick me until he feels save to fuck me again. I got two orgasms from that. Then we had a shower together.

I told him that I bought something to make hygiene easier. I showed him a set of foreskin retainer rings in different sizes. Since the last weeks he went into the cage with foreskin retracted, but some movement brings the foreskin in front again with time. We will test the rings and see, if we can extend the take offs for cleaning. For the next hours he remains uncaged to see whether he will be comfortable with the rings and maybe modify in size.

He needs to be around me all the time to be save from cheating.