Advice on numbing and strap-on

@longtallsally I'll speak of the last time I was allowed PIV (over 2 years ago) and numbing cream and your concern if he will remain hard with numbing cream and him using the strapon.

When the wifey wanted and allowed me PIV, one main thing was to insure I lasted and she received multiple orgasms. To do this, the best option was for me to be numb by numbing spray. Of course concern was that I would not remain erect if I were numbed..

At the time, I had a prescription for Trimix (TriMix is a compounded injectable medication used to help with ED) and injected 15 minutes prior to PIV. My experience with Trimix is I remained erect for at least 1-2 hours.

As no stimulation is needed to the penis after injecting Trimix to become erect and state erect, I sprayed numbing spray (Duration by KY) on my head and all around the glans area including an inch or two below the head to negate any feeling that would tip me over. Once fully erect and after the spray took effect, I washed off my erect penis and rolled a condom .. It was totally a mind fuk.. As I was so erect but with hardly any feeling.

Long short... I penetrated the wife and she had several huge orgasms all the while me feeling nothing around the head to prompt ejaculation. The only thing I felt was at the bottom of my shaft. After she was finished, I rolled the condom off and remained erect for another hour, numbed... As of a human dildo for her use if she wanted more. After some time, I began to deflate back to normal and the spray wore off and all was well except for my blue balls..
Of course, if one wished, I'm sure viagra or Cialis would work in the same fashion.

As far as the strapon... We have a crotch rocket and I have used it several times to penetrate her while I was caged. Sure it's a mind fuk as I'm penetrating her but feeling nothing as rhe dildo and my thrusting is doing al rhe work. She loved it. As far as my standpoint, I was thankful I could use the strapon to pound her as she wanted because she came numerous times. And after finishing I was still so horny and submissive.

For me it was not weird. It was just a way I could please here while being locked. Don't worry, what's weird to some is sexy and erotic to many.

As far as playing with fire... You may find you prefer him wearing the strapon first or more as you will be pleased while insuring his penis doesn't have an accident and ejaculate before you are fully satisfied

He'll be okay and may even look forward to using a strapon to please you if you require as he knows it will please you.

Sorry for the long post but wanted to give you my experience with regard to your questions.