A hornet's nest for sure! I was shocked to learn today that a close relative had three of them (diet, exercise, and career). So why not chastity? It could be for either for KH or sub or both? Please make sure to cut me in on the royalties for the sit-com? I suppose long distance Khs sort of fit the bill to some extent. This could go in so many directions. Let loose with your thoughts?
Hmm, I've heard about accountability partners to help ingrain new habits. I had an online buddy once who was locked up at the same time I was. We would check in with each other daily to make sure we were staying honest
Before it got over taken by bleed-your-bank-account-dry crap heads, financial domination was sort of like that. Making sure you are spending money right. - Like cafe coffee? Not anymore, instant for you or maybe a half decent coffee machine. - Like take out multiple times a week? Learn to cook and maybe you are allowed take-out as a treat - Want to spend money on a luxury item? Pay your bills first, and earn the privilege to buy that item.
Perhaps. But I see that really as more a part of a KH and cage wearer relationship. The caged sub tries their best to stay chaste and locked, until allowed releases. The KH reinforces that effort through tease and denial, or discipline, or feminization, or whatever works best. Involving another party could be useful to some, but that could also be in the form of a bull or pro domme. Basically whatever works for you.
This being the FLR subforum, I feel honour bound to point out that in an FLR that's pretty much what the dominant does!
I have a business coach. He has been invaluable. I consider my wife and Mrs. J to be the ones that hold me accountable in my chastity journey.
I've seeked an accountability coach (for my chastity) for some time now. I absolutely see the importance of the role. I am chaste for my wife, but it is MY responsibility to see to it that I am. So, accountability coach (male or female) yes! But not a keyholder, per se.
Thank you Rectrix. You are right. I am glad you pointed this out. We chaste men should not passively wait for someone to "control us". Instead, we must seek out that accountability actively by sharing openly with one another here--both in the forums, and via private messages.
Absolutely on point! What else is this community for if we don't keep an eye on each other We're in this together boys